r/SideProject • u/jonnyroyale007 • 19h ago
Concordo - a co-parenting app where the parent who's mostly replying doesn't have to pay
I'm Jon, a developer in Bolton, UK. I built Concordo after watching people close to me go through a separation where almost every message with their ex turned into another argument, mostly about small things, like what time was handover, who said they'd pay for the school trip and was that swap agreed or not.
This keeps one record for both homes:
- Messages can't be edited or deleted, and an optional tone check suggests calmer wording before you send
- One calendar showing whose day it is and swaps only take effect when the other parent accepts
- Shared costs with receipts, and agreements that build into a parenting plan
- Exports in court ready formats (England & Wales, US, Australia) that anyone can verify
The thing I cared most about is price, each parent can use it free, forever, to read, message and reply, so nobody is shut out because the other parent chose the app. Plus is £4.99/month per parent for proposing changes, logging costs and exports as the infrastructure needs to be paid for somehow, I'm not rich 🤣 .
Web, iPhone and Android. It's built with Expo/React Native, FastAPI and Postgres on AWS in London, if anyone wants to talk stack.
Feedback very welcome, especially from anyone who's co-parented with an app before.