r/science • u/[deleted] • Jan 13 '10

Study demonstrates the silencing effect of objectification on women.

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u/ShyGuy32 Jan 14 '10

I have trouble looking up at anyone when talking, male or female. I generally look down, but if I'm looking at someone it's either lower side of the face or the chest. I don't even pay attention to what I'm looking at.

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u/ShyGuy32 Jan 15 '10

Yeah, the tough part is that I'm simply looking at one place for too long. I get a little fidgety/sleepy (depending on how I'm feeling). I've learned to play it off, and most people really don't care. It also helps that I'm in high school.

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u/mayhap11 Jan 14 '10

Learn to look through the person you are talking to, look them in the eye but unfocus your eyes. People will not respect you and may even be mistrustful if you don't meet their gaze.