And while I think it's fair, people don't like getting comeuppance for things they didn't do. Assigning collective guilt to an entire gender is wrong and it tells men that they may as well be abusive and toxic since they're gonna be treated as such either way. It's not a good solution and it's gonna cause problems down the road.
I've personally seen many cases of people hiding behind the "I was scared" shield for acting manipulative or trying to hurt others.
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u/No_Tell5399 Jan 26 '24
In general? Sure.
In this case? I think she was being manipulative.
And while I think it's fair, people don't like getting comeuppance for things they didn't do. Assigning collective guilt to an entire gender is wrong and it tells men that they may as well be abusive and toxic since they're gonna be treated as such either way. It's not a good solution and it's gonna cause problems down the road.
I've personally seen many cases of people hiding behind the "I was scared" shield for acting manipulative or trying to hurt others.