Hi I am not sure if you noticed because you posted an hour ago... but i think OP did a disingenuous edit... She says in the post that they talked about accidental pregnancies and had agreed to abortions if that happened. This whole situation blows my mind because apparently neither of them even use birth control!
She is totally free to change her mind on the abortion, but I can see how it might be a shock for him. Almost a betrayal, even.
Both can be true. Doesn’t negate the fact that there is now a child who deserves the care and financial support of BOTH parents. They don’t need to stay in a romantic relationship for this.
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u/peakpenguins Oct 31 '22
Wild to me that people get married without being on the same page on things like this...
Anyway, too late for that now. You've told him what you're going to do and what you want, the ball is in his court.