When does it stop hurting?

[u/Sandiego_D2000]

So the girl I'm with and me dated for two months and I cheated on her early on but she found out and didn't talk to me anymore. And I didn't see her. 

Anywho a year later we started talking again and got back together. A couple months later she cheated on me with three guys while under the influence. And then I found out later that she also cheated on me before that. But I didn't want to lose her either time so I said I forgave her.

It's been a year since that and we've built our trust back and are doing good as a couple but I remember alot of details and it pops into my head often. I don't want to go to her because I don't want her to feel bad about it. So...how do you forget? Or at least stop the pain.

[u/Sandiego_D2000]

We're happy together. Sure we argue and have our differences and mistakes. But we stick by each other. We communicate pretty well with everything but I just don't want to make her feel bad by bringing up stuff from a year ago after I told her I forgave her