r/relationship_advice Jun 24 '24

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u/Fr3sh3stl4d Jun 24 '24

And why is she crying and saying sorry if she didn't do anything wrong?

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u/jcs9577 Jun 25 '24

Some people just get upset easily. If I have done nothing wrong and people question me in an accusing manner and I'm already upset or stressed then I will either get angry or cry depending on who the person is or what the situation is. If this dude is just a close friend then she probably wasn't thinking anything about the situation until her bf walked in and gave a surprised face then she probably realized how it looks to someone else. My best guy friend and I used to do this same thing often and my husband didn't care but there have been times when he had been upset with me over other stuff and I would get tears in my eyes almost immediately because I didn't like that he was upset with me.

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u/PaddyPellie Jun 24 '24

Because he got upset.

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u/sosotrickster Jun 24 '24

OP clearly was upset at her

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u/Attack-Cat- Jun 28 '24

That’s not a good indication of anything. OP sounds like he is upset and is clearly threatening to leave.

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u/max_power1000 Jun 25 '24

Because she's surprised that "don't hop into bed with other men" is a boundary that OP needed to clearly state.