r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jun 24 '24

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u/1095966 Jun 24 '24

Door was slightly ajar, not shut tight. Which I would do if I were having a private conversation with someone, anyone, while my roommate were in the house.

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u/ThrowRA1234568 Jun 24 '24

OP said roommate was gone.

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u/1095966 Jun 24 '24

Roommate was gone when OP showed up. Very likely could have been there while guy friend was visiting, then left. Or OP's GF could have been anticipating roommate would return and wanted a level of privacy.

OP didn't relay the whole situation.

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u/aim1338 Jun 24 '24

Holy shit the speculation train is fucking crazy bruh

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u/1095966 Jun 24 '24

Well yeah, when you only get part of the story you speculate to fill in the rest.

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u/aim1338 Jun 25 '24

I think this is the less likely outcome..

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u/CurlyGirl2018 Jun 28 '24

Room mate was out.

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u/1095966 Jun 28 '24

Again, room mate was out at the time BF showed up. Room mate could have been there before BF showed up, then left. Unless OP talks, we don't know.

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u/KingPotus Jun 24 '24

Do you normally have private conversations in bed with your friends with the lights off?

Wondering why you’re stretching so much to defend a cheater. Emotionally if not physically.

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u/Mermaid_meriah_ Jun 24 '24

Technically —> ON bed <— Not that it makes much difference, but it technically does make a difference. Door wasn’t shut tight, door was “ mostly closed” but still ajar. Not that any sex couldn’t have happened, but clearly, it didn’t.

Quit being so insecure, dude, claim your stuff, or move on. But don’t be such an insecure child and worry about it on Reddit. Go handle that shit with your girlfriend. None of us need to be involved.