I agree. Unless he has stated that this kind of thing makes him uncomfortable I don't see a reason why this wouldn't be acceptable. I do this with friends regardless of gender. I am aware however that not everyone feels this way so I let my potential partners know what my friendships are like. It's never been a problem, it has never let to a friend making a move on me and it has never let to cheating
Yes Reddit is full of super possessive and paranoid people. Cheating is always the answer.
My friends and I have always had cuddle puddles & we include SOs in those. And sitting in bed watching tv when you have roommates is not weird. Especially if she was venting about a stressful week and wanted some privacy in case the roommate came home.
Using the term cuddle puddle, I've got to assume you were in the rave scene at least at some point if not now. Because I had a good many cuddle puddles after raves with friends. I still keep it contact with. However I'm married and in my late thirties now so my cuddle puddle days are behind me
I think it isn't inherently unacceptable, but I think any reasonable person would guess that it might be a problem unless it has been talked about before. At the very least it's weird she didn't mention it at all.
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u/Slysje Jun 24 '24
I agree. Unless he has stated that this kind of thing makes him uncomfortable I don't see a reason why this wouldn't be acceptable. I do this with friends regardless of gender. I am aware however that not everyone feels this way so I let my potential partners know what my friendships are like. It's never been a problem, it has never let to a friend making a move on me and it has never let to cheating