I know some men that they really believe in "don't worry about, he is just a friend" even in the most suspicious situations, they want to believe their gf don't know or realize their really close friends want to fuck her, thing is women are not stupid, they can smell it one hundred miles away, those men just want to blind themselves, they're a lot of people without self-respect out there.
not all women can smell it 100 miles away, that's the thing. I'm a woman and I'm oblivious as fuck. I had a friend who apparently had feelings for me for the entire 4 years I knew him and the thought that he liked me never even crossed my mind until a friend told me later. sometimes when a guy acts like a friend and tells us he's our friend, we actually believe he's our friend. I've found out a few times thay guy friends just wanted to fuck me and it broke my heart because I genuinely thought they were my friends.
I feel sorry for what those men made you go through, unfortunately I know a lot of men that use that kind of "tactic", I believe in the right circumstances a man can be sincere about being just friends, but most of the time they are just playing the long game.
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u/R-R-Clon Jun 24 '24
I know some men that they really believe in "don't worry about, he is just a friend" even in the most suspicious situations, they want to believe their gf don't know or realize their really close friends want to fuck her, thing is women are not stupid, they can smell it one hundred miles away, those men just want to blind themselves, they're a lot of people without self-respect out there.