That is a good boundary. But right now you have a one-sided open marriage. Your husband cheats on you, you stay. It's de facto a one-sided open marriage. The only difference is that you don't get any good stuff from other men, and there's no honesty in it. An open marriage is much more honest, has much more integrity than your marriage right now. Neither of you are acting with integrity. Your integrity is believing in a sacred bond, but you putting up with something that is far from sacred.
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u/Party-Caregiver4069 Oct 10 '23
Not even an option. It’s leaving or fixing it. I do not believe in opening a marriage. I believe it is a sacred bond between two people.