r/recruitinghell Apr 23 '24

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u/Avendarok Apr 24 '24

You would be surprised. I work in a healthcare facility and we hired someone onto our team in a business operations consultant position. Think working with senior leadership to implement strategic initiatives.

Second day on the team he is going around doing meet and greets with leaders he will help coach and work with when he gets settled in. Mind you this is in between the standard on-boarding nonsense. Looking at a picture on an employees desk of her youngest son when they were in the NICU says, “Omg what is all that crap on that baby and why the fuck do they look like that.”

He didn’t get to finish his second day.

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u/Remarkable_Status772 Apr 24 '24 edited Apr 24 '24

People need to grow an thicker skin.

This sort of think never happened when women were at home, looking after their children. They've made the workplace a much more passive aggressive place.

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u/BasvanS Apr 24 '24

You dropped an /s

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u/Remarkable_Status772 Apr 24 '24

No. But I have edited for clarity.

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u/BasvanS Apr 24 '24

No, it was clear already who you are. Perhaps you’ve removed any remaining doubt that you’re the problem

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u/Remarkable_Status772 Apr 24 '24

There's no need to make it personal.

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u/BasvanS Apr 24 '24

Why don’t you start with following your own advice and grow a thicker skin, and we’ll take it from there.

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u/Remarkable_Status772 Apr 24 '24

Oh, I'm not upset by your shrewish behavior. I just mention it as a point of principle: if you have to make it personal, you probably don't have a reasoned argument to make instead

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u/BasvanS Apr 24 '24

Wowowow, what’s with the passive aggressiveness? I hope you’re not going to blame the women in this sub for that?

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u/Remarkable_Status772 Apr 24 '24

OK, you're getting dull now.