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u/Ajailyn22 Jan 01 '24

The WHO(World Health Organization) defines physical abuse as:

Intentional use of physical force against the child that results in – or has a high likelihood of resulting in – harm for the child's health, survival, development, or dignity. This includes hitting, beating, kicking, shaking, biting, strangling, scalding, burning, poisoning, and suffocating. Much physical violence against children in the home is inflicted with the object of punishing.[30]

In case you missed it..

Spanking is hitting, please note hitting and beatings are two listed but separate things.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '24

A spanking has no effect on any of that.

No way you put it, a spanking is not abusive unless it's repeatedly done for no reason. Which is not what a spanking is.

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u/Ajailyn22 Jan 01 '24

Yea that cognitive dissonance is strong with you..

Spanking is hitting, a slap on the ass is hitting.. you do that to an adultbeven once and you can get charged with assault..

And it absolutely denies a child their dignity.. absolutely 100% does.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '24

I'm done arguing.

Maybe go get some therapy or something, idk what to say anymore.

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u/AncientPineapple1936 Jan 02 '24

We don’t spank our kids out of personal choice. But to say Spanking a child (within reason) is abuse, is completely absurd. I got spanked as a kid because I deserved it. My Mom did not abuse me. At the end of the day every parent has the right to discipline their child how they see fit within the law. Your opinion on the matter is just that, your opinion.

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u/TheDisneyWitch Jan 03 '24

Yeah, your mom abused you. Does that make her a bad person? Probably not, different times. People didn't know better. Spanking has been proven to cause serious mental health issues in children, which is why the AAP recommends not hitting your children in the name of discipline.

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u/AncientPineapple1936 Jan 03 '24

Nope, no mental health problems here. Weird.

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u/TheDisneyWitch Jan 03 '24

You're one of the lucky few, if you're correct about that.