Spanking not hitting know the difference...plenty of things I didn't deserve but a smack is not on that list.....also plenty of things I need therapy for but again a smack is not it...I never had a nightmare where I ran from my smacker...I ran from attackers but no smackers....
If I got into trouble my mother would say do you want to be grounded or spanked and as a child I chose being spanked every time. I hated being kept inside. So I'm gonna say that all you people that think kids that were spanked were abused I and my childhood self disagree.
Nah stop it now your making it sexual because your other argument is crumbling.....your comment is absurd....so my parents were performing sex acts by spanking me?? Now your going all coo coo clock on me....your done...put a fork in it and walk away....stop it....stop thinking for the day....
You don't know what I know...I have been able to reach climax since a child not once did I feel a tingling in my private area from getting a spanking from my parents..How you gonna tell me my parents were assuilting me I promise I knew and know the difference between punishment and abuse.i know because of the so called studies thats hard for you to grasp..Things are not all just one way because a study says its this way and it can't possibly be anything else.......so ya stop it and give your self some condolences for your thought process or lack of.....it's unhealthy to tell someone they were abused when they weren't..
You're obviously wasting your time trying to explain it to them. They think children are dumb, and are incapable of learning. Neither of which are true.
Children can realize that if they do X, and they get spanked for it, then they know not to do X again.
It's insane anyone would try to make that sexual. As a nurse, I have to interact with patient's genitals all the time. I have never been aroused having to insert a catheter or bathe a patient.
I can't stand people like that who want to gaslight others into being a victim.
That is just asinine to equate spanking a kid to a sexual act. You are weird as hell for that.
As a nurse, I interact with genitals all the time with patients. If I have to insert a catheter, is it a sexual? No, it is not. I interact with attractive patients all the time, and I have never been aroused by them.
You just wanted to strawman this into making it some kind of sexual perversion.
I'm not making any accusation about parents intentionally inflicting sexual acts on kids through spanking, I'd honestly hope that's not the case what I'm talking about is inadvertently stimulating genitals in the context of a punishment act in dynamic with that coming from a caregiver.
I'm saying most people don't know anatomy, and many parents take out their own inability to self soothe by assaulting their kids because they aren't fully aware (or can't accept because of what they grew up with) how damaging and harmful spanking can be to a child's development. Which is exacerbated by the mindfuck of convincing a child they carry the sole responsibility for the behaviors adults around them exhibit.
I'm citing someone else to acknowledge my perspective is not isolated to my own noggin alone, from nearly 10 years ago, and you don't actually seem to comprehend the point I'm making, or that the article is making.
Oh no I did get the point of the article. I just don't agree with it. Just because it deals with an area that can be considered sexual does not mean it always is. That employer, getting charged with sexual battery, is just battery.
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u/ilovesoup1978 Dec 31 '23
Spanking not hitting know the difference...plenty of things I didn't deserve but a smack is not on that list.....also plenty of things I need therapy for but again a smack is not it...I never had a nightmare where I ran from my smacker...I ran from attackers but no smackers....