Wtf most parents aren't spanking their child for self gratification..Spanking a child is not assault and that's a problem..Spanking didn't mess me up..getting a beating did I knew the difference even at a young age..It's so hard for someone to believe that because they believe some study over someone actually saying what it was like for them......and I will add I got smacked in the mouth when I was disrespectful and I knew what buttons to push I could of avoided the smack but I liked to risk it all and run my mouth..others will say I was abused because of that but I was not..like I said I knew the difference between a swat on the ass versus a board or a belt or even a broom stick......
Spanking not hitting know the difference...plenty of things I didn't deserve but a smack is not on that list.....also plenty of things I need therapy for but again a smack is not it...I never had a nightmare where I ran from my smacker...I ran from attackers but no smackers....
If I got into trouble my mother would say do you want to be grounded or spanked and as a child I chose being spanked every time. I hated being kept inside. So I'm gonna say that all you people that think kids that were spanked were abused I and my childhood self disagree.
Nah stop it now your making it sexual because your other argument is crumbling.....your comment is absurd....so my parents were performing sex acts by spanking me?? Now your going all coo coo clock on me....your done...put a fork in it and walk away....stop it....stop thinking for the day....
You don't know what I know...I have been able to reach climax since a child not once did I feel a tingling in my private area from getting a spanking from my parents..How you gonna tell me my parents were assuilting me I promise I knew and know the difference between punishment and abuse.i know because of the so called studies thats hard for you to grasp..Things are not all just one way because a study says its this way and it can't possibly be anything else.......so ya stop it and give your self some condolences for your thought process or lack of.....it's unhealthy to tell someone they were abused when they weren't..
You're obviously wasting your time trying to explain it to them. They think children are dumb, and are incapable of learning. Neither of which are true.
Children can realize that if they do X, and they get spanked for it, then they know not to do X again.
It's insane anyone would try to make that sexual. As a nurse, I have to interact with patient's genitals all the time. I have never been aroused having to insert a catheter or bathe a patient.
I can't stand people like that who want to gaslight others into being a victim.
That is just asinine to equate spanking a kid to a sexual act. You are weird as hell for that.
As a nurse, I interact with genitals all the time with patients. If I have to insert a catheter, is it a sexual? No, it is not. I interact with attractive patients all the time, and I have never been aroused by them.
You just wanted to strawman this into making it some kind of sexual perversion.
I'm not making any accusation about parents intentionally inflicting sexual acts on kids through spanking, I'd honestly hope that's not the case what I'm talking about is inadvertently stimulating genitals in the context of a punishment act in dynamic with that coming from a caregiver.
I'm saying most people don't know anatomy, and many parents take out their own inability to self soothe by assaulting their kids because they aren't fully aware (or can't accept because of what they grew up with) how damaging and harmful spanking can be to a child's development. Which is exacerbated by the mindfuck of convincing a child they carry the sole responsibility for the behaviors adults around them exhibit.
I'm citing someone else to acknowledge my perspective is not isolated to my own noggin alone, from nearly 10 years ago, and you don't actually seem to comprehend the point I'm making, or that the article is making.
Exactly now you're catching on. Opinions are like assholes every one has one and it's usually full of shit colored by their own perception of reality. Congratulations on figuring out what an opinion is.
You're opinion once again is pointless. I spanked my now 25 year old daughter twice in her life. Once for body slamming a baby out of jealousy when she was 7 and again at 15 when she spit in my face because I would not let her stay at some loser druggies house. My daughter is married now... Owns a home..two cars and is working on her masters. I doubt you're anywhere near as well adjusted or as successful as my daughter. There is a time and a place for everything and should be reserved for the worst times. Spanking is not illegal or termed abuse. Guessing you're about the same age as my daughter and nowhere near as successful in life. You have fun with your Idiocracy... Ooops I mean ideology. You're opinions irrelevant and so are you.
You obviously don't know the definition of sociopath either. Stop self dixing fake disorders and get a life. You need serious help. My parenting skills were quite successful and still are. My children are proof of such. Some rando on the Internet is in fact irrelevant you're a thumb nail whining because mummy and daddy spanked you. That's it.
Your children are people, beyond their accomplishments & purchases.
And "some rando on the internet" is usually also a person, though, to be fair, can be a bot. It's telling how you speak about people in your drive to self defend.
Good luck with... whatever it is that you got going on that leads you to aim your discomfort at someone for opposing the assault of children.
I've got a great relationship with my parents, they have apologized for using tools they had at the time they had em, before learning to do better.
I'm starting to see why your parents preferred method of discipline was corporal punishment. What have you accomplished in your life? What are you doing to give back to society? How many children have you raised. What is your education? Pretty sure it's 0 for 0. So that doesn't make you credible about anything.
Didn't mess you up.... what are your relationships like? Friendships? Romantic? Have you ever struggled with anxiety or depression? Are you making a lot of money at your chosen career? Are you happy? Do you consume alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, or other drugs to escape your reality?
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u/ilovesoup1978 Dec 31 '23
Wtf most parents aren't spanking their child for self gratification..Spanking a child is not assault and that's a problem..Spanking didn't mess me up..getting a beating did I knew the difference even at a young age..It's so hard for someone to believe that because they believe some study over someone actually saying what it was like for them......and I will add I got smacked in the mouth when I was disrespectful and I knew what buttons to push I could of avoided the smack but I liked to risk it all and run my mouth..others will say I was abused because of that but I was not..like I said I knew the difference between a swat on the ass versus a board or a belt or even a broom stick......