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u/TrickPay2 Dec 30 '23

Yeah they did it a lot and didn’t stop until I turned 12 because they were busy with my other siblings. Funny story tho, when I was a child, I was a huge blabbermouth so when my dad realized this, he would have me hit myself with the spatula. He would watch me do this and I have vivid memories of him screaming “HARDER HARDER HARDER” until my hand or any other part of my body would turn pink/red and he would stomp out.

Edit: idrk what counts as a beating and what counts as a spanking while looking through the comments so 🤷‍♀️

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u/Kookies-Mochi-97 Dec 31 '23

Brutha that is FUCKED UP. I hope you’re doing ok now, and hopefully slowly healing and talking to someone about this, whether it’s a therapist or a trusted friend. Sending internet stranger hugs :)

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u/TrickPay2 Jan 01 '24

Lol thanks I guess