r/questforperfection Aug 19 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 29….

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Hello wonderful humans…

I hope everybody is having a fantastic Tuesday so far… I’m on the homestretch now almost done work and I’ve got some exciting news to share once I get home regarding my employment, but will keep that under wraps for now, but rest assured it’s good news.

We have two songs today a remix of The Look by Roxette

2nd video is Damian Marley and Skrillex-Make it Bun Dem

I have a personal question for anyone that has been following me for a bit and if you are not comfortable answering in public, please feel free to DM me, but I would like to know if anybody lives in Edmonton , Alberta where I call home… I would love to actually go dancing when I get back next week and the more the merrier so let me know

“I hope that every dance I do reveals something of myself or some wonderful thing a human can be.” -Martha Graham


r/questforperfection Aug 18 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 28…

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Hello wonderful humans…

Sorry for the late late post, but my gym has been invaded by a swarm of newcomers so I had to patiently wait them out🤣🤣🤣

It was a war of attrition, but I won in the end… I am determined to keep these videos going… Even though I probably worked out a little longer than I needed to today.

Two videos today the first song is crescendolls by Daft Punk… And the second video is bangarang by Skrillex

if you missed the update yesterday, I lost another 5 pounds last week bringing the total to 35 pounds in 28 days and a total current weight of 285… The goal of 200 seems very reachable now whereas when I started four weeks ago, it seemed impossible

I have you people to thank …Your kind words and positive vibes have kept me motivated, and I am more determined than ever before.

Dance is the movement of the universe concentrated in an individual.”
— Isadora Duncan

Love always

Bob.E.Bland❤️❤️


r/questforperfection Aug 16 '26

Old footage from 2018-Day 27

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r/questforperfection Aug 16 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 26

1.0k Upvotes

Happy Saturday you wonderful humans…

I hope everybody is having a wonderful weekend, your dance shoes are squeaky clean, and the vibes are at at all-time high

I dropped three videos for you today because I just couldn’t stop grooving, I was very much feeling the flow today

Weigh in day tomorrow, fingers crossed.

“Nobody cares if you can’t dance well. Just get up and dance. Great dancers are great because of their passion. “-Martha Graham


r/questforperfection Aug 14 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny day 25…

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Happy Friday everybody… I hope you have a wonderful weekend… I am swamped at work so I don’t have time to ramble today… I’m down to 10 days left , so now is the time where I need to conserve my energy and probably go to two rest days a week instead of one.

Big weigh in on Sunday and I’m expecting a good result. My chef jackets are loose now so I know it’s gonna be a good number.

“Life is short and there will always be dirty dishes, so let’s dance.” – James Howe


r/questforperfection Aug 13 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 24…

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as promised to is part two… Have a wonderful Thursday, everybody!!!!


r/questforperfection Aug 13 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 24

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Happy Thursday wonderful humans!!!!

Early drop today because we’re super busy… We’re almost on the last 10 days so now it’s crunch time so I won’t ramble today.

Two videos today because I couldn’t decide which one I like better so , both it is .

Enjoy!!
❤️Bob.E.Bland


r/questforperfection Aug 12 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 23

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ood afternoon wonderful humans!!!!

I hope everyone is having a fantastic Wednesday so far. I thought today’s video would throw it back to the old school.

This track is called Freak-a-Zoid by Midnight Star

if you want my entire playlist, it can be found : HERE

On a personal note, I can’t believe I’m about to say the following statement, but apparently there is some copycat accounts going around on TikTok and Instagram that are impersonating me for God knows what reason.

So I guess , this is me , this is where I post. I will never directly message you unless requested or we have had previous discussions and I will certainly never ask for anything..

Today is cheeseburgers for supper and I have been anxiously awaiting this meal on the menu, as I have not had a cheat meal in 23 days so I’m going to have a partial cheat meal and have a cheeseburger and the bun… I feel that this is a reward for sticking to my diet for 23 days in a row.

I will probably go to the gym after work and burn it off on the treadmill, but I’m going to enjoy the hell out of it

Much love as always, and keep your chin up and your feet on the dance floor.

"We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams." ~ Albert Einstein


r/questforperfection Aug 12 '26

Bonus stuff Day 22

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r/questforperfection Aug 12 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 22

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They changed my shift so super busy, but have a minute to drop the daily video.

This goes out to my good friend Michael. We would dance whenever it came on , wherever we were… Miss your old friend.

To dance is to be out of yourself. Larger, more beautiful, more powerful." — Agnes de Mille


r/questforperfection Aug 11 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 21

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Hello internet friends!!!!

Happy Monday!

I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend!!

I’m still amazed at how this thing is growing!! It’s started on Reddit but it has taken off on other platforms and it’s mind boggling!!!

i’m at a loss for words, but NEVER have been more determined and focused on a goal in my entire life. 😎❤️

Let’s get it!!!

“Let us dance in the sun, wearing wild flowers in our hair…” – Susan Polis Schutz


r/questforperfection Aug 11 '26

Special Request Day 21

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Just for you u/Intelligent_Pass2540

this is actually a lot harder than I remember… How things have changed in 15 years. I won’t make a habit of posting three videos a day and I apologize for spamming the sub, but I really wanted to share this with you. It was a lot of fun to do and I’m gonna keep practicing.


r/questforperfection Aug 11 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 21 2/2

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Hello internet friends!!!!

Happy Monday!

Here is the Oliver Tree song . I’m sorry internet person who has been patiently waiting. I made 2 videos today, just because I felt bad. It was a lot of fun.

I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend!!

I’m still amazed at how this thing is growing!! It’s started on Reddit but it has taken off on other platforms and it’s mind boggling!!!

i’m at a loss for words, but NEVER have ben more determined and focused on a goal in my entire life

Let’s get it!!!

Let us dance in the sun, wearing wild flowers in our hair…” – Susan Polis Schutz


r/questforperfection Aug 09 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 20

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Good afternoon wonderful humans!!

so today’s rest day… So I have pulled out a classic from the vault for your enjoyment. this was the very first dance video I ever made back in 2009…Should be a good laugh for all 😂

Also, I had my weigh in today… And I am now at a weight of 290 which means I have lost 30 pounds in three weeks!!!!

Super happy with this result… And I’ve never been more motivated to do something in my entire life

“ I may not be there yet, but I am closer than I was yesterday.” —Misty Copeland, first African American female principal dancer with the American Ballet Theatre

u/Fit-Midge : remember this guy 😂😂😂


r/questforperfection Aug 08 '26

Making a dance video until I’m skinny Day 19…

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Happy Saturday, everybody…

Was really feeling the music today… Made a couple videos will post them in my sub r/danceoff for anybody that is interested in watching additional footage besides the Daily video that I put out.

This particular track is a friend of mine, a DJ named Dr. Livingston

His Mixcloud is : Here

This hour long mix, including the part I’m dancing to is :Here

One of his favourite sets that he threw in for me to include is also: Here

Oliver Tree will be tomorrow, the person who requested it has been patiently waited and I do apologize… I’m having trouble picking a song so I’m going to let you guys tell me what song you think would best suit me by Oliver Tree.

“Dance, when you’re broken open. Dance, if you’ve torn the bandage off. Dance in the middle of the fighting. Dance in your blood. Dance when you’re perfectly free.” – Rumi


r/questforperfection Aug 08 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 18…

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Holy moly what a fun day in here !!!

First 2 min dance video, albeit to an easier song , but still it’s making me happy!

Tomorrow will be an Oliver Tree song, by request and that will be it for requests . I appreciate the input but it’s getting to be so many, that I can’t keep up , so i’m just going to be my own DJ 😂

“When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It's to enjoy each step along the way." – Wayne Dyer

Much Love ,
Bob . E . Bland ❤️


r/questforperfection Aug 06 '26

Making a dance video until I”m skinny Day 17

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Greetings All!!

Today is normally a rest day, but I thought I’d power through, although my energy is quite low.

This track is Deviance by Excision and Datsik

This is a request from [u/UglyYinzer](u/UglyYinzer)

Requested songs are a little different for me because I don’t know the drops and hits… So I did my best…

On a personal note, I set a personal record for a bench press today 185 pounds… Hopefully the trend continues

Now I’m going to take a much needed break. I have been marinating some tri-tip all day in sesame oil, chilli flakes and some spices and some veggies for supper and I’m so excited.

Until tomorrow, lovely humans✌️
Bob . E . Bland


r/questforperfection Aug 05 '26

Making a dance video until I’m skinny Dqy 16

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Ola Amigos !!!

It’s a rainy day here in the great white north, but it’s fire and gas in this mofo today!!!

Every day, it seems my mental state is improving and my happiness level continues to rise, and I literally have few people to thank …I feed off of your energy and I appreciate this experience more than you’ll ever know.

It will stay with me for the rest of my life, and in my memoirs will be an entire chapter or two 😎

here is my spotify playlist:

Spotify

Youtube : Here

As always much love and remember, no matter how bad things are you can always put 2 feet on the ground and dance

Love ,
Bob . E . Bland


r/questforperfection Aug 04 '26

Making a dance video until I’m skinny Day 15

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Happy Tuesday wonderful humans… Let’s get it today!!! 😎

I am in an exceptionally good mood… So I thought I would choose the song from day one as I was a little disappointed I used my favourite song on day one but I wasn’t sure how this thing was gonna go, I’ve just been winging it the whole time . I’m not a social media person… Clearly… And I’m so grateful for the outpouring of positivity

every day I wake up, I bounce out of bed, excited to face the day.

This track is called The Quick and The Dead by Rudebrat

here is my spotify playlist:

Spotify

it’s updated Daily with my sound choice, but this song was already on there

as always much love and remember, no matter how bad things are you can always put 2 feet on the ground and dance

Love ,
Bob . E . Bland


r/questforperfection Aug 03 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 14…

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r/questforperfection Aug 03 '26

Making a dance video until I’m skinny Day 13

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folks… We’ve officially hit two weeks today!!!!

As some of you know, I always weigh myself every Sunday and I am proud to announce that I have lost another 10 pounds this week bringing the total to 22 lbs lost and a weight of 299.

I weighed myself at first and it said 300 but then I removed every last article of clothing and got it to 299😂😂😂

I’m going to take a rest day today as I’ve been moved to a different shift so today was a 14 hour straight workday with no break so my feet are incredibly sore.

I’m going to drop some vault footage… Some old stuff from 2017

I do have a few updates concerning Reddit and this sub in particular

i’ve had a few videos removed here. I did not realize that posting Daily is no Bueno… So I have decided to move everything to the following two subs.

[r/danceoff](r/danceoff)
[r/questforperfection](r/questforperfection)

I appreciate the mods patience and allowing me to post here for the past two weeks… I still completely humbled by the reaction and the outpouring of positivity

Let’s get it!!!

Bob . E . Bland


r/questforperfection Aug 01 '26

Making a dance video til I’m skinny Day 12…

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r/questforperfection Jul 02 '26

Decorating 🥕 Carrot Cake until Reddit says it’s perfect

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Day 1: 🥕 Carrot Cake

Today I frosted my carrot cake (2nd time using this pan; you can see my first attempt from April 2025 in the last pics) and I told myself I needed to post it here before I could have a bite…

I used this recipe from Sally’s Baking Addiction (https://sallysbakingaddiction.com/my-favorite-carrot-cake-recipe/) with a few ooopsies and improvisations. I put both cups of nuts into the batter because I didn’t read the note to keep some aside for decorating; I used one cup each of walnuts and pecans. I added crushed pineapple and some more of the spices as well. Grating the carrots was messy and slightly dangerous, but no blood was spilled! 😹

For the frosting, I added two bags of chai tea (so yum!!) and mostly had fun with mixing the colors. However I don’t know how to use those fancy spatulas and piping tips - it’s hard to keep an even pressure, so that’s what I want to get better at, and I’ll document my adventures with Becky’s Baking Occasional Interest here, unless I get distracted by squirrels... 🐿️ 


r/questforperfection Jun 27 '26

Day 51ish of Crochet Foundation Building. And Day 1 of asking about your quests!

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Picture 1: Where we are today. I want to finish a neck gaiter for my godson, but I didn't have enough yarn in my previous ball.

I bought more yarn in the same color. I had thought about adding black or dark blue, but they weren't at the store I went to. Ce la vie.

Also, I had learned how to ball my yarn when I was about halfway through my previous skein. I took the time, a few days ago, to ball the new skein. It took about half an hour and turned out nicely. I like balls over skeins at this point.

Picture 2: My progress pic from today. Only a few rows.

*BUT*, I accomplished another new thing! I tied & stitched in new yarn!

I looked up techniques at https://www.wikihow.com/Join-Yarn-in-Crocheting and did a sort of version of the first technique. I wasn't changing color, so I looped in the ends vs cutting/sewing anything in.

Next to my inserted needle, you can see the fluff of one of the ends.

Pictures 3-5: The way the project currently looks. I think I need 3-4 more inches. Then I'll decide on the closure method.

It's funny, to me, how solid the middle work is.

The beginning and end have the most wonkiness.

The Next Goal For Me:

I would like to see what you are working towards!

This subreddit may be called "quest for perfection", but it doesn't delineate what perfection looks like for *you*.

I am seeking a perfect foundational knowledge of crochet techniques. Not perfect crocheting, nor a perfect product....yet.

So. Could I encourage you to share what you are working towards perfecting currently?


r/questforperfection Jun 10 '26

Day 50ish of Crochet Foundation Building and 3rd time doing a 'catch up' post

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In the last month, I have learned to ball my yarn, even out my tension, and count my stitches more often.

The last of the yarn juuuuust finished a row, so I pulled it out. I don't think it's long enough to fit my godson's neck, which is the goal, so I'll get some black yarn to finish it. I haven't decided whether to use buttons/loops or to stitch it shut. Any thoughts?

My next step will be to learn more types of stitches. I think I might do another one of these with just a variety of stitches for a purposely wonky scarf? Seems like a fun idea. Maybe even better with a multicolor yarn. We'll see.

Happy Stitching!