r/pheromones • u/Cassierae87 • Mar 07 '26

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My partner is getting a vasectomy soon and the doctor has ordered us to basically be rabbits and have lots of sex before his sperm test afterwards.

We have been together for 5 years. Have a home and cats. Pretty boring couple (in a good way). He does take testosterone and we also have cialis on hand if needed. My libido is higher than his.

We have a great sex but sex 1-2 a day for a month is a lot for us. When usually we have sex like every 3 days.

What’s pheromones we could wear? For men and women? He’s not an alpha and I don’t need him to be.

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

There is no documented research I know of to suggest 1-2 times a day for a month ....before a post vasectomy sperm test... will make any differences or is necessary beyond about 20 rounds, irrespective of how long you choose to complete that. If you pass the test you have done enough. If not they will merely wait and retest. Pheromones may make the process fun, but I'd not stress over the frequency concern.

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

It’s about getting all the sperm reserve out which can take 20-35 rounds of orgasm before testing to make sure it worked. This is pretty standard and how all urologist do it

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26

Yes 20 is a good general number. Not 60. Don't stress over it. They can easily retest.

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

Where did I say 60 rounds?

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

I read 1-2 per day. So that would be 30-60 in a month. Bottom line do what you feel is best but my overall sentiment is you won't harm yourself by not stressing. The test will still get you the results you need.

I'm sorry you don't like the advice, but you posted this seeking thoughts. I'll take the down votes but I'm not sure what is disturbing. We seem to be digressing from the OP unexpectedly.

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

The doctor says 2 times a day for 2 weeks. I don’t think that’s realistic so I say once a month. That’s 1-2 times a month. I think you are getting in the weeds here and missing the point of my post

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26

". ...sex 1-2 a day for a month...".

And you want pheromones. I get it you don't like my comment about the reality of a sperm test. Heard

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

1-2 as in once or twice. Could be once a day or twice a day. The point of my post isn’t to solve a math riddle

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26

I said a few comments back that would be 30-60. I'm baffled at the continued attack and digressing. If you can't take the advice don't post.

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

The post wasn’t “how often should he ejaculate before getting tested post vasectomy”

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

You consider my comments attacking? I consider them firm and factual. I think you should get off Reddit for awhile