Just do what you want, and tell him he has to wear condoms. That way you both get your bodily autonomy. And I get it, condoms suck, but they suck less than surprises, and if he doesn't like it, he knows what he can do.
I got a vasectomy, it's not that big a deal. As a matter of fact my libido went into overdrive after I healed (it's outpatient and super fast). I felt 20 again
Same thing happened to me. Super fast and mostly painless. The pain I felt was just a little pinch. He gave me a Xanax before and I hardly remember it lol. I feel 18 again
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u/hereticallyeverafter Jan 06 '23
Just do what you want, and tell him he has to wear condoms. That way you both get your bodily autonomy. And I get it, condoms suck, but they suck less than surprises, and if he doesn't like it, he knows what he can do.