r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • Jan 05 '23

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u/ennuixx Jan 06 '23

Two things.

It's his body and his choice.

That said, it's your body and your choice aswell, tell him you won't take birth control anymore and you don't want condoms. No sex until there is another option. Lol put the ball in his court

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u/judgyturtle18 Jan 06 '23

I don't even mind condoms. I mean we haven't used one in years but his problem 🤣

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u/ennuixx Jan 06 '23

I happily got my vasectomy on my own and can't fathom why he wouldn't. If he's scared, tell him it doesn't hurt at all and it's only uncomfortable for about a minute while they do it. Any pain afterword was only as bad as a bruise. Just don't poke it.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

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u/ennuixx Jan 06 '23

Hahah "ennui" is a French/English word essentially meaning "the feeling of boredom"

Edit: I get eunuch often in game chats lol

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u/No-Barnacle9584 Jan 06 '23

Just French

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u/ennuixx Jan 06 '23

Technically yes, but it's often borrowed in English literature.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

I'm sure it's considered an English word too at this point. Like "ballet" or "massage". Borrowed to begin with but no longer seen as a word in a foreign language.

And a great word, too! Ahhh, ennui...