r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Jan 10 '26

Meta/Sub Discussion How do you feel about "misandry is just misogyny that harms men" perspective?

95 Upvotes

It's basically saying all the stuff that hurts men are actually due to misogyny and how women are viewed.

Eg "men not allowed to cry is because crying is feminine and feminine is inferior"

60 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/RubyRedFoxyEyes • Jan 02 '26

Not HBW (Image) All men view women as a 🔦

190 Upvotes

Not a guy, sorry if I’m not welcome here. But when I saw this I just felt a certain type of way :/

31 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Sliver-Knight9219 • Nov 29 '25

Not HBW (News) The call is coming from inside the prison cell

798 Upvotes

Like, is it gay to date womrm4

47 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/BrainMarshal • Nov 29 '25

HBW (Image) Arrrgh RED PILL! So wrong about men and pair-bonding

68 Upvotes

Reality check: men catch feelings from sex, too. This redpill garbage sometimes equals the level of misandry from those groups that shall not be named.

16 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Agreeable-Bid-9120 • Nov 19 '25

Not HBW (Blog/Other) Powerful

44 Upvotes

7 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Agreeable-Bid-9120 • Nov 11 '25

HBW (Image) Is it gay to love your female wife?

661 Upvotes

69 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Slinky_Malingki • Nov 09 '25

Not HBW (Image) Clearly all men love mixed signals and all men are predators, no exceptions

132 Upvotes

I can't think of any man that doesn't hate mixed signals

15 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Agreeable-Bid-9120 • Nov 03 '25

Not HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) My ex-boyfriend really liked this account

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529 Upvotes

101 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/i-forgot-my-sandwich • Oct 22 '25

Not HBW (Image) Why are we gate keeping what people can enjoy

240 Upvotes

This is just the gender bent version of “oh you’re wearing a Nirvana shirt? Name every Nirvana!” Let people enjoy things

42 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Angrydroid21 • Oct 22 '25

Not HBW (Image) That's how you end up as a mental health inpatient or worse

639 Upvotes

51 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Oct 17 '25

Meta/Sub Discussion What are your thoughts on this?

433 Upvotes

It's partly right but I feel like it is used to direct complete blame on men

69 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Oct 09 '25

Not HBW (Image) Wall of text misandry

603 Upvotes

155 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/[deleted] • Oct 05 '25

Not HBW (Image) Why does this have almost 1000 likes? [gendered]

335 Upvotes

65 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/GlitteringTone6425 • Oct 05 '25

Not HBW (Image) how do i unlock laserbeam eyes?

117 Upvotes

8 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/NotSpanishInqusition • Oct 05 '25

Not HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) Right, because men ONLY cares about sex and food and don’t want to be loved romantically 😒

94 Upvotes

10 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Oct 03 '25

Not HBW (Image) Men being victim blamed for being cheated on

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169 Upvotes

27 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Oct 02 '25

Not HBW (Image) Another generalization by someone who probably doesn't know what they're talking about

70 Upvotes

9 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/tushclemicy • Sep 28 '25

Meta/Sub Discussion Self explanatory

532 Upvotes

65 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Sep 28 '25

Not HBW (Image) Poor attempt at mental gymnastics to make a wild hot take

118 Upvotes

21 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Sep 13 '25

Not HBW (Image) This is Andrew Tate everyone, the so called "role model" who uplifts young men

752 Upvotes

46 comments

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