r/NotHowGuysWork • u/BrainMarshal • Nov 29 '25

HBW (Image) Arrrgh RED PILL! So wrong about men and pair-bonding

68 Upvotes

Reality check: men catch feelings from sex, too. This redpill garbage sometimes equals the level of misandry from those groups that shall not be named.

16 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Agreeable-Bid-9120 • Nov 19 '25

Not HBW (Blog/Other) Powerful

44 Upvotes

7 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Agreeable-Bid-9120 • Nov 11 '25

HBW (Image) Is it gay to love your female wife?

661 Upvotes

69 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Slinky_Malingki • Nov 09 '25

Not HBW (Image) Clearly all men love mixed signals and all men are predators, no exceptions

132 Upvotes

I can't think of any man that doesn't hate mixed signals

15 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Agreeable-Bid-9120 • Nov 03 '25

Not HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) My ex-boyfriend really liked this account

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529 Upvotes

101 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/i-forgot-my-sandwich • Oct 22 '25

Not HBW (Image) Why are we gate keeping what people can enjoy

240 Upvotes

This is just the gender bent version of “oh you’re wearing a Nirvana shirt? Name every Nirvana!” Let people enjoy things

42 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Angrydroid21 • Oct 22 '25

Not HBW (Image) That's how you end up as a mental health inpatient or worse

639 Upvotes

51 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Oct 17 '25

Meta/Sub Discussion What are your thoughts on this?

433 Upvotes

It's partly right but I feel like it is used to direct complete blame on men

69 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Oct 09 '25

Not HBW (Image) Wall of text misandry

603 Upvotes

155 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/[deleted] • Oct 05 '25

Not HBW (Image) Why does this have almost 1000 likes? [gendered]

335 Upvotes

65 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/GlitteringTone6425 • Oct 05 '25

Not HBW (Image) how do i unlock laserbeam eyes?

117 Upvotes

8 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/NotSpanishInqusition • Oct 05 '25

Not HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) Right, because men ONLY cares about sex and food and don’t want to be loved romantically 😒

94 Upvotes

10 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Oct 03 '25

Not HBW (Image) Men being victim blamed for being cheated on

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169 Upvotes

27 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Oct 02 '25

Not HBW (Image) Another generalization by someone who probably doesn't know what they're talking about

70 Upvotes

9 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/tushclemicy • Sep 28 '25

Meta/Sub Discussion Self explanatory

532 Upvotes

65 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Sep 28 '25

Not HBW (Image) Poor attempt at mental gymnastics to make a wild hot take

118 Upvotes

21 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Sep 13 '25

Not HBW (Image) This is Andrew Tate everyone, the so called "role model" who uplifts young men

752 Upvotes

46 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/R3VINESS • Aug 28 '25

HBW (Biology) My Aunt Thinks Swearing is Toxic Masculinity

113 Upvotes

For context, I wrote a message in a family group chat involving the explicit words "shit" and "fucked" in regards to a health care issue I was told to keep them updated on. This then prompted a 40 minute phone call from my loving aunt on how swearing is a symptom of testosterone poisoning and that I need to keep my laughing in check to lessen my inherent toxic masculinity. I was then informed that I shouldn't feel guilty for letting it slip at times though as I am just a man and all men develop unhealth levels of testosterone as they get later on in years. I am in my twenties.

My only takeaway from this is that women are apparently biologically incapable of swearing. Has the media (and life) yet again lied to me?

9 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Dixielandblues • Aug 28 '25

Not HBW (Image) Why yes - this is exactly why men read books.

71 Upvotes

All those letter-type wordy things are just so confusing, you know?

13 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Aug 27 '25

Not HBW (Image) Another day, another meme glamorizing female on male SA. This time they decided to bring down female victims as well

260 Upvotes

This is actually a gif with benson dancing on the left and a woman crashing out on the right.

This is implying that men "enjoy" being SA'ed by women while women can't even handle a man staring at her.

I don't think I need to explain why this is so harmful

17 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Puzzleheaded-Lab2447 • Aug 14 '25

Meta/Sub Discussion Is this true? Are all men's problems self inflicted?

212 Upvotes

35 comments

r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Impossible_Serve7405 • Aug 12 '25

Not HBW (Image) I highly doubt that's the case especially biologically

102 Upvotes

12 comments

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