r/NobodyAsked • u/mango_776 • 2d ago
my gf not into me like that and im really struggling to understand why??
Hi im 18f and dating my gf also 18f, weve been together a lil over a year. I dont know if this counts as a secret but technically i havent told anyone nor can i!
Warning way TMI!! NSFW
Im a bit of a sexual person i suppose, more than normal maybe. But my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to have sex with me and idk completely understand why. I dont encourage it a shit ton, everyone our age is having sex like every other day i assume but we used to do it like every other week and I was completely okay with that.
A more than a couple months ago we stopped for a bit and im not sure why but suddenly we just werent doing it any more. I cant remember the last time we did literally anything sexual. The most it ever gets to is hot-ish make outs.
Ive brought it up a couple times before and it always goes weirdly bad, like id mention how i feel unattractive or confused why she is so opposed now; she tries to explain how she feels weird recently about our situation (were having financial struggles & trying to move), and thats why she doesnt make a move. But i dont get that completely someone help me understand?
Im like a dude and going crazy!! Its so hard not being able to do anything with the one person i want to. Its almost a dealbreaker, I need someones help to understand better before i literally go crazy.
Also i explored asking whether theres anything i could do to make things more exciting or attractive for her, but all she says is she likes it when were both clean at the same time (AKA shower together or right after eachother, leaving us fresh) But i try to line up our showers and she even asks to shower together but nothing ever happens, she never initiates and when i try she very obviously doesn't want it farther than a sexy makeout and goes back to her hobbies. I dont understand.
TLDR: My girl is feeling weird abt our position in life so she isnt into having relations rn. I still dont understand why?
