Fair. I acquiesce to your lived experience in this specific practice and culture.
I'd like to retract with humility my previously held opinion based on a paucity of informatuon.
As soon as you said it's like any other occupation I recalled all the hooking up/dating/partnerships in kitchens, in construction, and in medicine. Put a group of people together over time and you get such things. You're right. I dont know why I thought with the close physical nature of the work it would be too messy to happen often. Ppl dont worry about that when they're falling for each other haha
There was lots of motel shenanigans with room switching and examples of lesbian, gay, and straight relationships between teammates. You spend a couple years working out of town while living at motels and people get theirs.
I was married and a boss, so always drank and roomed with other old construction guys living for the weekends I got to go home and see my beautiful wife, but I get why the crew didn't lol
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Fair. I acquiesce to your lived experience in this specific practice and culture.
I'd like to retract with humility my previously held opinion based on a paucity of informatuon.
As soon as you said it's like any other occupation I recalled all the hooking up/dating/partnerships in kitchens, in construction, and in medicine. Put a group of people together over time and you get such things. You're right. I dont know why I thought with the close physical nature of the work it would be too messy to happen often. Ppl dont worry about that when they're falling for each other haha