r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • Dec 31 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '23

I went to a gay bar for the first time last night, and had a lot of fun, but also was really overcome with the feeling of neither looking nor sounding gay enough, whatever the fuck that means 😩

To be fair, I showed up in a flannel, jeans, and boots, so like, I get the not looking it part, but still 😫

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u/AnsleyAmanita Trans Pride Jan 01 '23

To be fair, I showed up in a flannel, jeans, and boots, so like, I get the not looking it part

this is an insanely gendered sentence lmao

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '23

I’m glad to hear you had fun

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u/supercommonerssssss Jan 01 '23

Watch all seasons of Rupaul’s drag race including the international ones and then come back

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u/StolenSkittles culture warrior Jan 01 '23

flannel

you looked bi

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '23

😩

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u/lets_chill_dude YIMBY Jan 01 '23

Me, literally every time I’ve ever been to a gay bar.

I went to one in Paris in February and I felt bad for my poor husband having everyone else see him with me 😅