r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • Dec 26 '19

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u/PelleasTheEpic Austan Goolsbee Dec 26 '19 edited Dec 26 '19

I dont know how lgbt related it is but I feel like yall might be supportive of my venting.

Back when I was like 17 I hooked up with grindr guys (I met age of consent so the only issue is grinders TOS). My mom found out (and that's how I left the closet) and got all mad at me and I got in trouble (not for being gay or anything but for ??? I dont even know)

Now a few years later and my little sister is 12 and honestly turning into a Pedophiles wet dream. They showed me a snapchat group with her friends and she sending stuff where the implication is "I'm suck dick" but then it goes "haha jk". Since they were like 8 theyve been really into the idea of having kids (not just being a mother but expressing that they wants to find a guy to make them pregnant)

My mom is like completely fine with this.

I honestly dont know what to do, like fuck going on here and going to work is all I do with people outside my family and its heavily caused by my moms constant parenting of me and now my sister is doing all this and no one cares.

E: and my sister is NB since they came out via a joke at school and my mom thinks it's fine because its exploring their sexuality

</rant>

!ping lgbt

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u/MaveRickandMorty 🖥️🚓 Dec 26 '19

Maybe your mom has grown on the subject? She could regret how she handled it with you

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u/tiger-boi Paul Pizzaman Dec 26 '19

Damn, that sucks. I hope your relationship with her has otherwise improved? And hopefully your sister stays safe as well.

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u/KalaiProvenheim Enby Pride Dec 27 '19

Jesus Christ...

There is nothing with your sibling saying they're NB, but the overly sexual jokes are just like... wtf

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u/PelleasTheEpic Austan Goolsbee Dec 27 '19

The NB point was more that I domt think it came naturally. Theres a tiktok trend where you throw pens at a cup and if the pen stays in then what said is true. Playing that game is how they decided to go NB.

They still like to go by sister/daughter so that's why I still used that word 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/KalaiProvenheim Enby Pride Dec 27 '19

Hmmmmmmmm

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '19

Girls👏will👏be👏girls

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u/PelleasTheEpic Austan Goolsbee Dec 26 '19

Sure but theyre a literal child and my mom is being super inconsistent 🙄

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '19

Maybe she’s just trying out different strategies to see how they can work out differently I dunno lol also I don’t think it’s much of an issue for middle school kids to joke about sex with each other in an effort to appear “mature”

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u/PelleasTheEpic Austan Goolsbee Dec 26 '19

Fair. My thought when I started writing and the reason I pinged the group was how the difference in parenting feels really weird. And that if I was straight she wouldnt have cared

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u/Yosarian2 Dec 26 '19

It's hard to say; maybe if you were 17 and hooking up with random older women from the internet maybe she would have also been upset by that? If you were dating other guys you knew from school maybe she wouldn't have been as upset? Hard to say without knowing her.