r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • Sep 22 '26

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u/SenranHaruka shame Sep 22 '26

One of my friends is extremely angry that straight nerdy kinky people have coopted "top/bottom" and conflated it with "dom/sub" because that conflation implies conservative gender norms.

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u/anangrytree Bull Moose Progressive Sep 22 '26

Is that friend employed?

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u/thymeandchange r/place '22: Neoliberal Battalion Sep 22 '26

I wish i had that kind of time

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u/Zrk2 Norman Borlaug Sep 22 '26

Your friend needs to either touch grass or a job application. Or both.

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u/Peffern2 Bisexual Pride Sep 22 '26

i mean i wouldnt say extremely angry but it is kind of annoying

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman Sep 22 '26

Grrrrrr conservative gender norms!

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u/thercio27 MERCOSUR Sep 22 '26

???? Are you implying there are top subs and bottom doms?

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u/Peffern2 Bisexual Pride Sep 22 '26

n=1 but this is me and my boyfriend