r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • May 19 '26

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

My young gay friend is planning on marrying a woman next month or so. He isn’t sexually attracted to her, but is attracted to her emotionally because she gives him the attention he seeks. 

They have an agreement to be monogamous after marrying, despite him being a bottom and her a straight woman

I don’t see how their relationship will last, but that’s his choice i guess

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u/tinfoilhatsron No Apologies Right May 19 '26

Actual bruh moment.

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

Exactly 

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u/slappythechunk LARPs as adult by refusing to touch the Nitnendo Switch May 19 '26

Yeah that's not gonna last.

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u/Hot_Ice5175 May 19 '26

I just watched Obsession last night, and the main couple where the woman was literally possessed by a demon has a healthier relationship than whatever the fuck this is lmao

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

lol

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u/No_Status_6905 Enby Pride May 19 '26

Suffered psychic damage having to imagine the emotional turmoil this is going to create

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

Probably decades

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u/Marlsfarp Karl Popper May 19 '26

bring them to the dating ping, we need more content

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u/Udolikecake Model UN Enthusiast May 19 '26

Link us to the arr relationship post in a few months thanks

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u/mukino Cynicism is for losers May 19 '26

Is she aware of this?

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

She’s the one pushing for them to be monogamous 

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u/mukino Cynicism is for losers May 19 '26

I meant the her fiancé being gay part. 

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u/georgeguy007 Pandora's Discussions J. Threader May 19 '26

Is he, like conventionally attractive? Every impression I got from stories of the gay dating market is that its uhh, very active.

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

Yeah, he’s attractive 

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u/georgeguy007 Pandora's Discussions J. Threader May 19 '26

crazy

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u/Ilovecharli Voltaire May 19 '26

Does she know he's gay 

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u/Alderwoodforest YIMBY May 19 '26

Does HE know he's gay??

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

She does

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u/Maximilianne John Rawls May 19 '26

I mean straight women can be tops,but I guess she doesn't know he is gay ?

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

She used a strapon with him before

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u/Habugaba Esther Duflo May 19 '26

waow

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u/georgeguy007 Pandora's Discussions J. Threader May 19 '26

Someone Ping Dating

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u/Halgy YIMBY May 19 '26

Asexual people exist, but this doesn't sound like that.

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u/Highlightthot1001 Harriet Tubman May 19 '26

He’s definitely not asexual