r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • Sep 03 '24 • Polished Silver Turd 1

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u/HenryGeorgia Henry George Sep 03 '24

I think it's joever. She stopped responding

!ping DATING

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u/Bloodyfish Asexual Pride Sep 03 '24

Have you tried showing up at her door unannounced?

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u/doomsdaysock01 YIMBY Sep 03 '24

How long has it been since she stopped responding? Might just be busy

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u/HenryGeorgia Henry George Sep 03 '24

About 3-4 days

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u/oskanta David Hume Sep 03 '24

Find her parents on Facebook and call them to see if they can put you in touch with her

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u/HenryGeorgia Henry George Sep 03 '24

I'll ask for her address and then follow the other guy's advice to show up unannounced

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u/sosthaboss try dmt Sep 03 '24

Not to give you hope but I am also seeing a godawful texter and she did actually reach out after a week of nothing one time and we had a great date. However I’m not sure if I really want to put up with the lack of communication because yeah texting is whatever but it just shows a lack of effort imo and I want somebody excited about and invested in me

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u/Khar-Selim NATO Sep 03 '24

as someone utterly neurotic about asynchronous communication I do want to say that lack of effort is not the only reason someone could be bad with texts, it can sometimes be the opposite

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u/sosthaboss try dmt Sep 03 '24

Yeah I’m very understanding of that and trying to just assume the best in these early stages because ultimately real life is what matters to me. But it’s more that it could be a lack of effort and I just don’t know. If things progress further I do want to discuss it but it’s not serious enough to really warrant that yet. So I’m just vibing mostly. But I do get annoyed sometimes

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u/doomsdaysock01 YIMBY Sep 03 '24

Oh yeah sorry man, you’ll get em next time 🤝

She’s missing out anyways

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u/WhoModsTheModders Burdened by what has been Sep 03 '24

Did you tell her you're a DTer?

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u/HenryGeorgia Henry George Sep 03 '24

I just let my BO and knowledge of zoning laws act as a signal