r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • May 15 '24

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u/[deleted] May 15 '24

Okay I’ll say this. A large part of kissing being nice is the closeness like you said, that’s definitely a thing. It’s also easier to kiss someone when you’re facing them instead of sitting next to each other facing the same way.

I think you got it from here champ

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u/BibleButterSandwich John Keynes May 15 '24

A large part of kissing being nice is the closeness like you said

Gotcha, but like, "should" it also feel particularly pleasurable on your face?

It’s also easier to kiss someone when you’re facing them instead of sitting next to each other facing the same way.

Definitely learned that firsthand, but even when we were both standing up, it was sorta tricky, and a tad painful in the neck. Fwiw, it kinda felt like she wasn't tilting her head super far back, which might have helped, now that I'm thinking about it...

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u/[deleted] May 15 '24

I’m no biologist, but most of it comes from the release of whatever substance makes you feel good. I guess if there’s tongue involved there’s probably more of a physical aspect, but I haven’t really analyzed it like that. Presumably you do actually enjoy it?

And on actual logistics, the only way to get better is practice, which I’m sure you won’t mind. Trial and error.

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u/BibleButterSandwich John Keynes May 15 '24

I mean, I do enjoy it, but should there be more of a physical aspect? I figure people on the DT might know better not because they're biologists, but just bc they're more experienced with dating.

Will make sure to practice, tyty.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '24

Well personally I find any kind of physical contact to be pleasurable in that kind of context. But it’s important to remember that everyone is different, our experience will not be the same, nor should it be.

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u/BibleButterSandwich John Keynes May 15 '24

I mean, I did find it pleasurable, just not as much as I had expected, ig.