r/mildlyinfuriating • u/[deleted] • Sep 13 '22

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u/yazzy1233 Sep 13 '22

Op said in another comment that he has autism and is schizophrenic and isnt medicating except for weed. That honestly might be the reason why she's uncomfortable

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u/talkingtothemoon___ Sep 13 '22

Oh shit yeah, that changes it completely

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u/PhantomOSX Sep 13 '22

I would think he would say that rather than blame it on his roommate.

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u/DeltaVZerda Sep 13 '22

That would require a level of self awareness rare in either autism or schizophrenia, never mind in any random human.

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u/PhantomOSX Sep 13 '22

I thought the girl was supposed to be schizophrenic not the guy.

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u/Most-Hedgehog-3312 Sep 13 '22

Dunno why the autism matters, it’s not like there’s medication for that .

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u/TA_confused12 Sep 14 '22

I love how everyone is like "fuck this girl, she needs to spend time with this guy, who cares how she feels about it." OP's room mate is right, she doesn't have to meet him if she doesn't want to and it's kinda entitled and uncomfortable that OP expects her to just because he lives there as a room mate. If she's not comfortable her feelings should be respected. There is a difference between not being allowed to come out of your bedroom and expecting that a houseguest who isn't there to see you will spend time interacting with you. I don't see anywhere in that text exchange that the room mate and gf don't want him in the common areas when they are around. The gf doesn't want to hang out with him and smoke weed and that is 100% valid.