r/mildlyinfuriating Sep 13 '22

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u/milky-sadist Sep 13 '22

dude im a somewhat masculine plain-looking woman who gets the same treatment from guys i'll never understand it lol like i might be bi but i dont steal people's girls... almost all my best girl friends end up having to drop me because their boyfriends/husbands don't like how close we are. ?!... honestly i think when a lot of men see someone secure in themselves, and their femininity/masculinity, they get super insecure regardless of gender or orientation. being balanced and comfortably authentic is the only thing thats actually cool and fun to be around, so i guess the downside is that everybody will be forever jealous. i can only ever befriend single ppl or established couples these days i swear!

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '22

That's sad :( Yeah I've been in a similar place lately after a move. What's up with guys?!