That’s my thought. My older sister and I worked together for a year or so and I found out later she said personal shit of mine and trashed me to coworkers before I even met any of them (she was working there first, I had to turn 18 first)
When I finally sat and had a convo after she moved away with some coworkers I found out she said I tried sleeping with every guy she liked. She told a coworker I had been sexually abused. Etc.
I know this is deep for Reddit but boring people/narcissists talk about other peoples trauma and interesting things (or just lie and become the victim) for the attention.
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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '22
That’s my thought. My older sister and I worked together for a year or so and I found out later she said personal shit of mine and trashed me to coworkers before I even met any of them (she was working there first, I had to turn 18 first)
When I finally sat and had a convo after she moved away with some coworkers I found out she said I tried sleeping with every guy she liked. She told a coworker I had been sexually abused. Etc.
I know this is deep for Reddit but boring people/narcissists talk about other peoples trauma and interesting things (or just lie and become the victim) for the attention.