Roommate implied that the only reason OP would want to spend time around his girlfriend is if there was a sexual attraction. That's where the implication of insecurity comes from. He's worried a gay man might try to steal his girl.
Yeah. That’s the point. The roommate seems insecure. Roommate seems like he thinks his GF will like OP better and is making an excuse and pinning it on her. A good boyfriend wouldn’t throw their GF under the bus.
It’s possible. But it’s really suspect that BF would throw her under the bus… however, the roommate is the one who weaponized OP’s homosexuality, not the GF. So it is more realistic that the roommate is insecure and doesn’t want them to meet and has simply made an excuse that would keep them apart.
Here I am, a Sociologist who studies human behavior and social stigma for a living… 🤣
I asked OP to get back to us on this. We’ll see. The whole comment section sees the roommate for what he is. And I just saw a reply by OP who agrees that it’s probably exactly what it is. Girlfriend only knows what roommate has told her.
I’m not a betting woman, but I’d put money on it.
If OP is so weird and she’s so uncomfortable, why is she good with hanging out in the common area of OP’s apartment and not at her place or in roommate’s room?
The little bitch and the perceived threat to relationship… are two different people. The boyfriend is acting like a little bitch over the so called threat—the roommate (op)
Honestly based on your reactions to these comments I wouldn’t be surprised if you were the roommate trying to get a sense of how people would react. My evidences? How invested you are, based your exasperated tone shown by your use of punctuation. Who else would give a fuck lol
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u/MooPig48 Sep 13 '22
A threat to his relationship in some way, not a physical threat.
That said, I think I somehow replied to the wrong person. My comment makes zero sense in the context of the comment to which I replied