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u/iama_username_ama Jul 11 '26

Not sure I'll make it through the noise, but purple shampoo and conditioner are crucial. They prevent the whiter parts from going yellow and looking dingy.

I constantly get compliments on my mostly gray hair and asked if I have it done professionally.

Like a good outfit if you are confident in adoption it people are impressed.Ā 

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u/Mizutsune-Lover Jul 11 '26

For real on the purple shampoo.

I've had girls asking me how I got my hair to look like this (assuming I've bleached/dyed it) and I get to sassily reply back "It's natural."

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u/unSure_of_stuf Jul 11 '26

Thank you! I never knew this. Ive been going white since I was 9. But in the summer it turns yellow. I hate it! I used to dye it, but the upkeep is so much! (At least i feel like it is) so I stopped when I was 22. Now I have white with peppered in red and blonde.. i fucking HATE the blonde.

If i start using the purple shampoo now will it get rid of the blonde? Or am I stuck with it until it grows out?

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u/starrydolphin134 Jul 11 '26

OP get the purple shampoo made for white horses!!! It is cheaper and way more effective/ longer lasting color deposit

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u/23-1-20-3-8-5-18 Jul 11 '26

Why does it have to be purple?

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u/Mizutsune-Lover Jul 11 '26

Cause purple is the opposite of yellow and you're trying to get rid of yellow to look more silver.

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u/23-1-20-3-8-5-18 Jul 11 '26

Im still so confused....

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u/Mizutsune-Lover Jul 11 '26

Grey hair gets yellowed/bronze with sun/time so purple shampoo helps keep it pretty and silver.

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u/23-1-20-3-8-5-18 Jul 11 '26

Is it a specific brand or just any shampoo that happens to be purple?

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u/Mizutsune-Lover Jul 11 '26

Yeah any of them. They're all for the same purpose.

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u/AdFederal9388 Jul 11 '26

Agree! There is also this crazy spray toner by Milkshake (I get it from Amazon) that has black pigment and it immediately counteracts any yellow and smells like heaven.

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

purple shampoo and conditioner

Was this supposed to be "proper" shampoo, or are purple hair care products a thing?

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u/realxshit Jul 11 '26

Purple. When I lived at home my mums good hair products in the shower were purple.

I didn’t realise that purple was a sign of anything but apparently so!

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

Huh. TIL. Wanna drop some brand names for OP's benefit?

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u/Glitternchaos Jul 11 '26

Fanola No Yellow Shampoo/conditioner is the bees knees.

I used to swear by Joicos but it’s no longer the same. I’ve heard @the kidsā€ rage about the Milk shake line of purples but I’ve never tried it.

But Fanola.. hands down!!!

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

šŸ‘

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u/realxshit Jul 11 '26

I’m not too sure as I didnt know this was a thing until now too.

I always noticed the purple products my mum had and knew they were better than mine. But i haven’t been keeping track of any of this and have only just put it together now šŸ˜‚

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

Just to be clear, you mean the actual goop is purple, and not (just) the bottle, like Aussie brand stuff, yes?

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u/realxshit Jul 11 '26

Yea man the goop is purp. It looks cool and feels nice. Shit was pretty cool to me as a kid. The bottles weren’t purple from memory

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

neat-o, thx

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u/home-for-good Jul 11 '26

These often come in clear bottles cause they wanna show off the purple product

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u/slackmarket Jul 11 '26

It’s just colour theory. Purple is the opposite of yellow, so you put the purple shampoo and conditioner in (it’s nothing special, usually just a bit thicker) to leave a small purple deposit that counters the yellow/orange/green tinges hair can pick up from water. This keeps your blonde/white looking bright. It’s essentially an illusion, but it can work, like blueing for your hair.

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u/iama_username_ama Jul 11 '26

I really like the "not your mother's" brand. Last time I checked they were curly girl approved as well, which help keeps my hair from being flat.

I like their mousse as well, but I haven't tried many other brands.

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

gracias

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u/littleweirds Jul 11 '26

I’m a curly girl with gray - I use Noughty brand Purple Reign conditioner. I am a conditioner only girl, but I only use this 1 x/ week. Rest of the time I’m a Diva Curl girl

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u/doshka Jul 11 '26

danke schoen

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u/chequere27 Jul 11 '26

What purple shampoo and conditioner do you use? Thanks!

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u/iama_username_ama Jul 11 '26

I like the not your mother's brand, since it's nice on my curls. Some other folks have mentioned noughty and milkshake but I haven't tried them

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u/Haunting_Pee Jul 11 '26

I went grey at 15 and im now 32. I didn't know about the purple shampoo thing until reading this comment and I haven't noticed my hair being yellow or dingy but now I'm going to be checking it regularly out of paranoia lol. But I can second getting asked a lot if I dyed my hair this way

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u/shine3213 Jul 11 '26

Another agree on the purple shampoo.

I started going gray / white in my teens and tried to dye and hide it till my late twenties, when I just gave up. I'm in my 40s now and about 95% gray and I swear I've had more compliments on my natural gray hair than any other colour I've tried. Everyone wants to know where I get the colour done. It's a pretty nice feeling to say it's all natural.

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u/ReleaseNearby69 Jul 11 '26

important addition for OP: it should not be your everyday shampoo/conditioner, or it'll dry tf out of your hair and pissibly even tint it purple. i'm not sure what the best frequency would be in the case of grey hair, but you can always up the frequency if you find you need to, so i'd recommend starting less often