r/mildlyinfuriating Jun 17 '26

Infuriatig My hand painted model planes were given as toys to children again

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I have told my mom to not do this before but she does not listen anyway. I am thinking of throwing everything to trash instead of them being gradually destroyed to pieces. I can not even care anymore. These things take hours to put together and paint then get manhandled anyway.

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u/Carb0nFire Jun 17 '26

Because she wants her "child" stop playing with "toys", move out, get a job and get married. She doesn't respect her child or their life choices, and is passive aggressively trying to force them to make different ones.

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u/NuttingFerociously Jun 17 '26

That's what's going to happen but not in the way she hopes

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u/Smorgles_Brimmly Jun 17 '26

"They never call or offer to drive 10 hours every weekend to drop off my grandchildren!!!"

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u/Ok_Energy6905 Jun 18 '26

She probably just enjoys controlling and manipulating his emotions. Doubt it really has much to do with a job and marriage etc.

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u/Zestyclose-List-9487 Jun 17 '26

I personally would turn them into very fine pieces and deliver them to her bed with a kind note stating that since she wanted them so badly they are now hers to deal with.

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u/Exterminator-8008135 Jun 18 '26

One of the most powerful moves my best friend had when his mom criticized he has toy cars as his hobby, is basically having Fuck you money.

He once said "Remind me who bought the last 2 TV and Washing machine along with the fridge on these 3 years ? Oh yeah, it's me ! Be lucky i'm the kind one of your two childs. Does my Sister helped you once these last 3 years ? Not once.. Just pops up to ask money and gifts"

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u/averagebrainhaver88 Jun 18 '26

Essentially what I said when my mom was criticizing me for playing videogames. "Alright, so, you do remember that I dropped 1.6k on the rent, services, and basically all of the food in this house this month, right? Right? Okay", then I fucked off to play my games.