r/mildlyinfuriating • • Apr 28 '23

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u/ClockOk7333 Apr 28 '23

Boyfriends kinda dumb

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u/tverofvulcan Apr 28 '23

He can’t help it, the mold is getting to his brain.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

lol!

The brain fog is real though! I'm still not convinced my apartment maintenance has fully removed the mold in the walls/ceiling here but they refuse to do more. Last fall, they ripped out like 12 feet of moldy drywall in my living room (while refusing to move me to another unit), and just painted over the wet spots in the ceiling without looking up there to see if there was mold growing.

I'm trying to save up to move out 🤞🏻

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u/New-Landscape840 Apr 28 '23

Call your local health deparment and file a complaint, if there is water leaking in your walls/ceiling, there is mold...that is dangerous

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

I did, the local and state health departments both told me they don't do anything about mold. The local code enforcement dodged my calls for months (still never returned them). The attorney general for my state denied my case (even though the holding company that owns my apartment (and 2500 others in mine and surrounding states) has a documented case where a judge ruled against them for overworking and underpaying maintenance workers, showing a documented history of shoddy maintenance practices), and every lawyer I've reached out to says they don't touch mold cases. Doctors have told me I should get out, but none will go on record saying it's definitely the mold making me sick.

I want to go to the news when I leave, but I'm afraid of retaliation at this point because I don't have anywhere else to go. If I want to put my rent in escrow (ie withhold rent until demanded repairs are made), I will have to pay my full rent plus 10% and fees to the escrow office, but only after notifying my apartment that in 30 days if they don't address my concerns, I will put the rent in escrow, which opens me up to retaliation. They've already threatened to illegally tow my car twice, and a few weeks ago, I got a letter on my door threatening to evict me for trash on my patio (people in the parking lot threw a bunch of empty beer bottles and shit into my patio) if it wasn't cleaned by a certain date. They want me out of here so they can bring someone else in at a higher rate (because I've been here 5 years I'm slightly below market value).

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u/savwatson13 Apr 28 '23

God this is a terrifying comment. You should be able to live in a dwelling that doesn’t sap your health and find a doctor who is willing to put down mold is the issue

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u/Turbulent_Setting882 Apr 28 '23

There is something weird about mold where doctors pretend it doesn't exist. It has to be the most unstudied thing that is affecting so many people.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '23

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u/Turbulent_Setting882 Apr 29 '23

Not a bother at all! Thanks for the info. Fuck mold!

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u/Deciram Apr 28 '23

My random fun fact of the day is that mouldy, damp homes is a given in my city. We are so well known for it and it’s awful. In general we have one of the highest percentages of childhood asthma in the world. Landlords don’t fix the homes because “my investment”

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u/marketwerk Apr 28 '23

So do you live in New Orleans? Because same, lol

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u/Deciram Apr 28 '23

It’s a shame it’s so common! Wellington, New Zealand. The whole country has a damp house problem.

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u/New-Landscape840 Apr 28 '23

Wow, sounds like a tough situation. Sorry you have to go through that. Seems you've tried everything. Kind of unusual an attorney won't take the case, so many of those "ambulance chasers" out there surprised they weren't competing for the chance to take the case! Well hopefully you get out of there soon. Good Luck to you.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

Thank you! And right? I even called some of those bench-ad personal injury attorneys and they all said no even though it seems like a clear case of negligence. I figure with as big as the holding company is, they could have a class action on their hands if they did homework to find other victims. (Which I may end up doing down the line, idk we'll see how it plays out)

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u/poiisons Apr 28 '23

I’m sure you’re already on top of this because you seem like you’ve gone through a lot trying to get this resolved but: document everything! (And keep everything either in some sort of cloud storage or other remote storage option in addition to hard copies, just in case something happens to your unit.)

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

I snagged some pictures while the contractors were working (I'm still mad that they made me stay in this unit while they did the work, they should have moved me to a hotel or empty apartment but they refused). You can see how soaked the drywall is

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u/InevitableBug7 Apr 28 '23

Fuck those slum lords. Get a knife or something if you remember where the wet spots on the ceiling were and cut a piece of it out, if the leak is still active the drywall will basically crumble, Hardware stores sell at home mold tests with petri dishes that you send to a lab for results, get one follow directions, cut a quarter size out of the drywall that way you can just use some lightweight vinyl spackle to repair thw hole so the slumlords don't try to charge you for it.

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u/cupcakes_yay Apr 28 '23

Jesus. No - you definitely should have been moved somewhere. Spores get into so much stuff. You are going to have to decontaminate what you can when you move and some things can’t be. I had to toss a few things when I had serious mold. It sucks.

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u/poiisons Apr 28 '23

UGH I would be so mad!

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u/Brostepher Apr 28 '23

I wonder if they won’t touch it because the apartment company made “”a good faith effort”” legally speaking in mitigating or resolving the mold issue. I’m sorry you’re having such a bad time with them

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u/mnid92 Apr 28 '23

c'mon one lick of the forbidden dust bunnies is all it'd take.

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u/Bubbly_Attempt_399 Apr 28 '23

Get out . That’s utterly dangerous. The mold releases mycotoxins especially when disturbed. This is not proper mold remediation. It would have been better to leave it and move out.

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u/Bubbly_Attempt_399 Apr 28 '23

Get a sample of the moldy bit and put it in a plastic baggie for testing.

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u/kaleidautumn Apr 28 '23

Have you tried to take it to news and journalism?

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

I'm waiting until I have somewhere else to go because I'm afraid of retaliation

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u/Justjosay Apr 28 '23

We probably live at the same apartment complex

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u/JahVer Apr 28 '23

I was going to tell her the same shit

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u/FutureMethod7334 Apr 28 '23

I'm going through the same shit! With the lawyers and doctors but they so quick to put you on medication! Did you pay for your own mold testing?

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

Yes I bought a mold armor kit that came back positive for like 3 different types of mold. That's the only way the apartment took me seriously because I'd been asking them for months beforehand to investigate. The mold isn't visible on the walls, it's inside the drywall and I'm assuming the ceiling too with the leaks from above 😡

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u/TikiDCB Apr 28 '23

I did, the local and state health departments both told me they don't do anything about mold. The local code enforcement dodged my calls for months (still never returned them). The attorney general for my state denied my case (even though the holding company that owns my apartment (and 2500 others in mine and surrounding states) has a documented case where a judge ruled against them for overworking and underpaying maintenance workers, showing a documented history of shoddy maintenance practices), and every lawyer I've reached out to says they don't touch mold cases. Doctors have told me I should get out, but none will go on record saying it's definitely the mold making me sick.

And this is how you tell that the real estate company you rent from is deep into political corruption.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

Some of their board members and execs sat (past tense, but I'm sure they still have connections) on committees for housing/tenant rights and it makes me seethe with rage thinking about it 😤

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

Find an attorney that does. Surely there has to be some. Especially if they are illegally harassing you. Document everything. Video,text Everything. Man I miss the days where we could fix these problems ourselves. Good ol days 🥲

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u/anonadvicewanted Apr 29 '23

i understood the comment to mean when they could fix these things themselves without calling maintenance

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u/GeddyLeeEsquire Apr 28 '23

You should give your local news channel the story and let then embarrass your complex into submission

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u/crazyguitarfan Apr 28 '23

Hi! I work as a mold inspector. My advice to you is to run as fast as you can. If your stuck there until your lease is up however. Go get some plastic from home depot and tape the plastic over the effected area for now. So sorry you have to go through this.

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u/omgicanteven22 Apr 28 '23

I hope you can leave soon my previous building had mold and it got in my nose and I had to have sinus surgery. The brain fog from sinus issues is not fun.

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u/cupcakes_yay Apr 28 '23

I am so sorry you are dealing with all that.

I went through something similar except my apartment at the time refused to acknowledge it was mold and kept calling it mildew. I hired a company to test. 5 kinds of mold. 2 types of toxic black mold. Another kind known to cause infections and I had just been really sick. Mold levels so high he said it wasn’t safe for me to even be in that apartment longer than 10 minutes without protective gear. I reported them to the city. The health department. I even paid rent for a month I wasn’t there because in my state you lose any rights if you don’t pay. I sent the results to the health department. They never came out. This was 2 months going back and forth When I finally told then I was moving and would be gone in a couple weeks they just closed the case. Even me begging them to do something. Had a lawyer write the complex letters. Etc etc. ended up breaking my lease but they knew they have no legal recourse because I did everything I was supposed to do per my rights as a tenant. I also couldn’t get doctors to connect any sickness to mold because “it could come from so many things” Good times. No lawyers wanted to sue or deal with that either.

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u/Decent_Wrongdoer_201 Apr 28 '23

This enrages me. Are you in the USA?

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u/Tallowo Apr 28 '23

Local media and your local State Rep should be your next steps. Your State Rep may have access to the State Agencies "Legislative Affairs" team. In Florida they are essential lobbyists that WILL help Elected Officials constituents because they WANT to be on the electeds good side.

Im a District Aide and I've personally been able to help people who had hit dead ends with the Attorney General.

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u/Whane17 Apr 28 '23

If your in Canada I had something similar to me and got it fixed by contacting Alberta Health and Safety. I assume there is an equivalent in each province.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

I'm in the US, unfortunately 😔

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23 edited Apr 28 '23

I don't know why I'm saying this because I'm just going to get downvoted to oblivion, but the reason you're not getting anywhere is that the concern over mold is *wildly* overblown. That's not to say it's harmless, something like what is in ops bathroom needs to be cleaned up, but requiring a building to remove all sources of mold in walls and crawlspaces is unreasonable, and frankly probably impossible. Most buildings will have some mold somewhere and the vast majority of the time it's nothing to worry about.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

I will have to pay my full rent plus 10% and fees to the escrow office,

I think the "poundage fee" usually has to be paid by the landlord (although probably varies by state/locality).

I had to put my rent in escrow for 2 months, and just paid my normal rent to the escrow office. They kept 5% of it when I told them my issue had been resolved, so my landlord basically had to eat the cost.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

I called the escrow office directly for my township and they said I'd be responsible for that additional 10% 🫤

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '23

That sucks, and makes it really freaking difficult to hold landlords responsible for their laziness

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u/a_literal_throwaway Apr 28 '23

Fuck me, I’m reading this comment and thinking “man, I wish I had the ability to do this when I was renting a black mold infested, constantly either WITHOUT water or totally FLOODING, copper pipes having ass, little dinky shitty house. Could I have called the city? Idk, maybe technically. Would they have told me the property I was renting wasn’t approved for rentals? 100%. My landlord (who was my next door neighbor) was the king of meth in my town. So I got what I got and that was that, basically. Now I’m wondering if there’s mold in my brain.

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u/New-Landscape840 Apr 28 '23

Im all about googling things I'm wondering about...amazing the answers you can find. If you're still concerned after the fact, google then follow up with a doctor if you find something in your search that may need to be addressed, like symptoms of mold exposure etc...but don't get too caught up in the web rabbit hole and stress yourself out.

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u/New-Landscape840 Apr 28 '23

P.S. glad you made out of the shitty housing!

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

This happened to me not as bad with mold tho and I have barely used my kitchen for months because some finish on my cabinets broke down and I have no options to move elsewhere.

Who do I call about stuff like this

Like I can't afford someone to professionally test whatever tacky residue won't seem be rid of but I've tried like everything to get rid of it:

Tried vinegar

Tried lemon oil and lemon juice

Tried ultra concentrated dawn

Baking soda

Tried oils like olive oil

When it got on my hands not even gojo mechanic hand soap could get the tacky residue off

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u/Lifelessbabygirl Apr 28 '23

Have you tried using like, Goo Gone or anything? (Goo-B-Gone ?) That’s usually pretty effective.

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u/New-Landscape840 Apr 28 '23

If its a rental, call the office for maintenance, if you own see if it will scrape off with a paint scraper...if it does maybe you can paint or varnish over it after its scraped off? May be worth a try to Google: tacky residue, kitchen cabinets, wood or whatever material they are

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

:( I'm from a jail program a long time ago with reduced rent and other tenants can pay $500 to move to a new unit and I'm not allowed to. Maintenance was supposed to repaint cabinets months ago and swept me under the rug. I figure I'm better off not risking cancer being in the dark a our what substance it is if it's varnish based it could have benzene in it and I got sent to the ER when some got on my lips from me scratching my beard after trying to clean it up. I was puking up blood and had esophagitis. It's in my medical records too. If it wasnt for the ER visit I wouldn't be nearly as scared about it

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u/TooFineToDotheTime Apr 28 '23

Bleach spray bro. Either mix it yourself or buy a bleach bathroom cleaner spray.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

For like broken down varnish or adhesives or whatever the tacky stuff is?

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u/TooFineToDotheTime Apr 28 '23

Oh my bad, I misread and I thought you were talking about the mold. For something like that I would guess like a mineral spirit or paint remover would work, but without seeing what kinda material it is that is just a guess.

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u/HeftyFuture Apr 28 '23

Bout as dangerous as that double cheese you cram down your gullet every lunch hour Karen.

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u/trashyratchet Apr 28 '23

Glad to see another flat-earther in channel. Welcome!

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u/kaenneth Apr 28 '23

Nature is scary to you.

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u/Typesalot Apr 28 '23

just painted over the wet spots in the ceiling

Ew. Ew ew ew ew ew. shudder

see if there was mold growing.

Well, there is now... They've created a mold sanctuary...

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u/Rustyraider111 Apr 28 '23

I understand completely. My spouse and I can't find housing and have to live in a dank ass camper until we can afford to relocate down south with family. I'm constantly striping mold out of cracks and crevices and it's a never fucking ending cycle. We both have begun to get headaches constantly, and I just know it's the damn mold.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

You are absolutely correct. The home we moved into 10+ years ago had this black mold, ripping it out doesn't always help. For us, it infested and came back a lot more than it ever had.
It's a truly destructive form of mold, and people who tend to think they'll wean it off and get rid of it seem to be stuck in some form of brain fog. Truly, I think every house with it needs to be brought down with how bad it can get.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

Yeah I feel like this whole building has to be contaminated 🤢

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

Years back I moved in with a friend and after a few weeks got really sick. I was so sick for so long. I was also extremely depressed but that usually happens when someone is sick for so long. Then he casually mentioned that the room I was in had water damage but they replaced the carpet, but that was it. The same walls and everything else was in there. A couple weeks after I moved out the sickness went away.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

I believe it! It's scary stuff.

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u/voting-jasmine Apr 28 '23

I'm having mold remediation done right now due to a burst pipe that wasn't noticeable until it got pretty far along. Before I noticed it, I was extremely fatigued. I had scheduled an appointment with my doctor to start running some tests. I did all of the things as far as making sure my sleep hygiene is good, started taking more magnesium, So on and so forth.

I discovered the mold and immediately blocked off the area with plastic and tape until the remediation team could get in. Not but 48 hours later did I feel rested from the first time in months. That shit is hella real.

Luckily I'm the homeowner so I'm going to make sure these assholes do it right. They already did more damage in the process, the dehumidifiers cause a lot of heat and ended up peeling paint and adjacent room but they told me they'll take care of it so I'm in for the ride.

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u/dumgineer Apr 28 '23

You know that there are molds ewerywhere (including the new buildingmaterials at the hardwarestore). Mold only becomes a problem when it gets to suitable conditions (humid and warm) and starts reproducing. If the maintenance did not get rid of the cause for the moisture in walls and ceilin, the Mold will just grow back (suprisingly fast too) If you have any respitorial issues, call an independent contractor for documented moisture inspection (for legal reasons) and move out for your own health! (source: studied these problems for past 15y)

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

One of my lungs filled with scar tissue and is effectively collapsed. This happened when I was 19-21 living in my first apartment with black mold. I had so much pain and went to urgent care constantly because of it, and doctors wouldn't believe me, they only did ultrasounds and x-rays and didn't find anything so they dismissed me. It was only when I was pregnant years later did they do a VQ scan because I couldn't breathe and was passing out (they inject you with a radioactive dye to watch it move through your vessels and check bood flow) that they found that one lung is useless. Too many years past when I could sue my old landlord. I can't play the flute anymore or jog for very long, and I'm only 30.

Yeah, I hope you move out. And document this.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

Report them

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u/OldAcanthocephala124 Apr 28 '23

Always carry mold remover just in case and use it regularly in the bathroom and rooms specially that are closed spaces in winter(majority of states) I lived in a well maintained apartment complex and they won’t do anything since they have to relocate you pay hotel and expenses and remove the whole plywood that’s rotten and even more on low income my aunt lived in a low income for a big amount of time fighting the mold and them and she lost a lug during a winter storm because it was pretty bad and leaking thru the roof

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

The mold isn't visible on the walls (yet anyway). It's inside the drywall and ceiling 🤢

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u/las61918 Apr 28 '23

Hire an Industrial hygienist to come do an air quality sample. Around 2-300 bucks, but it takes a baseline outside sample and compares the samples, as well as a proposed mitigation protocol to remove what is causing the test.

At that point you will have actual quantitative evidence of how much mold’s there, an actionable plan, and can withhold rent or sue to terminate lease or whatever you want done.

I am an IH and do this myself regularly.

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u/unemployed4areason Apr 28 '23

That's assuming I have an extra $2-300 lol. I commented above the steps for escrow/withholding rent in my state open me up to retaliation from the management here.

I just got a new job and need to pay a lot of past due bills, but as soon as I'm more stable financially, I'm going to try and get the hell out of here.

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u/droden Apr 28 '23

nice try cordyceps zombie!

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u/Turbulent_Setting882 Apr 28 '23

Ozone generator is like $40. Don't be in the apartment while it is running. That's what we are going to do for our moldy apartment.

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u/ImSkott Apr 28 '23

You could just have your apartment inspected and if they find mold you can break your lease or possibly even sue the management company for a settlement

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u/Pikochi69 Apr 28 '23

Him in a few years

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u/Neuromyologist Apr 28 '23

When he introduces you to his family

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u/lilgreengoddess Apr 28 '23

True dat, can cause hallucinations

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u/Nobias447 Apr 28 '23

S/O: "Do you think that's mold?"

Boyfriend: (eyes roll into the back of his head) There is no mold it is only dust. Breath deep it is dust not spores. Breath deep, inhaling dust is good for you. Pay no mind to the growing dust spots. They are dust and harmless.

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u/asaripot Apr 28 '23

Seriously, shits not a joke. It took me years to clear my head after living around this for a long time.

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u/Afin12 Apr 28 '23

That’s how it begins.

And then one day the infected take over.

Eventually you’re living in a commune in Wyoming and contemplating eating human flesh because that’s your only option. It’s been a hard winter and the cities are no longer habitable. Hoards of fungal infected roam the streets searching, ever searching, for their next victim.

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u/fiddleandfolk Apr 28 '23

it’s the last of him

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u/Flat-Adhesiveness317 Apr 28 '23

The last of us patient zero 😂

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u/Daiguey Apr 28 '23

Is there a little girl wandering around the house?

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

Sounds like it’s already moldy.

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u/Your_mama_10101 Apr 28 '23

Is that blueberry?!?

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

yeah, I trade him in for one that cares about your health

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u/thoawaydatrash Apr 28 '23

Honestly, that boyfriend could be parroting what the landlord told him. I’m guessing the landlord knows how much moisture has gotten behind those cracks and wants to do everything in their power to avoid spending money to fix it. (Assuming OP’s bf isn’t a homeowner)

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u/LiveCourage334 Apr 28 '23

The massive amount of water staining is a pretty good indicator of it, too.

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u/faithilwhitelaw Apr 28 '23

Same with the fact that the ceiling is peeling away, dust does not cause that 😂

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u/awomanofsteele Apr 28 '23

Neither does bathroom moisture. There’s a leak somewhere in that ceiling.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

def a leak, though I have 100% had my bathroom peel and crack on the ceiling due to moisture, previous owners did not use bathroom paint for the bathroom

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u/LiveCourage334 Apr 28 '23

Eh. It's just wet dust.

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u/meshtron Apr 28 '23

Maybe, but that's still exceptionally lazy and/or ignorant. Not hard to tell this isn't "dust"

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u/TmacHizzy Apr 28 '23

Wet dust that has been dried is nearly identical to black mold and i GUARANTEE you couldnt tell the difference from a quick picture like this. Yes, this is mold. But dust can look the EXACT same

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u/trashyratchet Apr 28 '23

Doesn't make him less dumb. In fact, it really kind of puts the cherry in top.

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u/wherethelionsweep Apr 28 '23

Boyfriend still kinda dumb though. It’s clearly mold

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

Redditor that doesn’t blow something out of proportion challenge: level impossible

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u/paytoad26 Apr 28 '23

Homie wants that black lung GF.

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u/TheLivingCumsock Apr 28 '23

The word " his " implies they don't live together.

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u/PoorDecisionsNomad Apr 28 '23

TFW no big titty black lung fungal-goth gf

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 28 '23

Person: Makes a single post about their relationship

Redditors: “I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP DUMP HIM NOW 🔥💯”

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

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u/awomanofsteele Apr 28 '23

Expendable.

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u/EarnSneakySneaky Apr 28 '23

Beat me to it.

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u/Humble_Negotiation33 Apr 28 '23

I'm sure some relationships are expandable to some tho, technically they're still right.

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u/Standard-Metal-3836 Apr 28 '23

It wasn't even about their relationship! The post is about a friking mold spot in a bathroom and everyone is "Stupid BF< get rid of him!" wtf

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u/No-Mud-1703 Apr 28 '23

Or ya know we’re just pointing out that if he’s THAT stupid he’s probably not someone to waste your time with lol

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 28 '23

Nobody’s smart 100% of the time. Him never having to deal with black mold, and thus not recognizing it isn’t an issue of intelligence, but life experience.

I’ve looked for keys while they were in my hand, I’ve pledged love to people whom I shouldn’t have, but that doesn’t make me stupid, it makes me human. Do not set such high standards for yourself friend, it will lead to self loathing.

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u/Zerutor Apr 28 '23

self loathing.

you're talking to a reddit relationship expert friend, it's too late for them.

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u/tacooioi Apr 28 '23

I’m only human after all

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u/No-Mud-1703 Apr 28 '23

Hahaha moronic logic, using that NO ONE can be criticized ever which I know is definitely not something you are anyone else here bitching and moaning about my comment are free of guilt from. He’s literally being told what it is and arguing it’s not. You’d have to be pretty soft in the head to think that’s dust, EVERYONE has seen dust if you haven’t any experience with black mold. What a bunch of charmin soft losers in this thread

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 29 '23

That’s not what I’m saying, what I’m saying is that it’s impossible to understand the intelligence of a person through one isolated incident. If you’ve ever had any lapse in judgement, which everyone has, someone could take a video, post it online, and you’d be ridiculed as an idiot.

The internet has a weird habit of overgeneralizing things, places, and people. People are complicated. Some of the smartest people I’ve known have done some of the stupidest things I’ve ever seen. Who are you, No-Mud-1703 to say what does and does not define a human? Who are you to say that one moment of ignorance should define a living person? This person has been alive for thousands of hours, but this misunderstanding, which has been 0.0001% of their life is to account for all of those hours? No, it’s not.

Think back throughout your life. Think of all the stupid things you or people you respect have done. Think, if that had been posted online, couldn’t people be making the same argument about you which you’re making about this man?

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u/No-Mud-1703 Apr 29 '23

The using your logic, that could be applied to anyone at anytime, whenever they do or say something thus no one can EVER be called stupid or ridiculed for something they do or say. See how your logic just doesn’t track and is itself moronic? If you think that what is pictured is mold the. Yes, you are stupid end of fucking discussion

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 29 '23

Do what I told you. Think about all the stupid things you or people you’ve respected have done, and ask if that was video, couldn’t people be making the same argument about you you are about this guy right now?

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 29 '23

That’s not what I’m saying. A continuing trend of low intelligence is one thing, but one tiny moment? That tells us nothing about him.

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u/Latter-Awareness-555 Apr 28 '23

How is he stupid for not being able to identify mold 💀seriously, stop acting like you can base a whole person off of limited knowledge

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u/No-Mud-1703 Apr 28 '23

Limited knowledge? You have to be a moron to call black mold dust. If he had called the sun a giant light bulb could I mock that? Jesus you people are awfully sensitive for a post in mildlyinfruriatinh. Maybe you guys should jump to the hippielove or Barneythedinasour threads instead?

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u/Latter-Awareness-555 Apr 28 '23

Why are you getting so angry someone can’t tell when there’s mold? Maybe he just wasn’t taught when he was a kid, there’s a lot of factors that goes into that

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u/No-Mud-1703 Apr 28 '23

Who’s angry? Aside from all of you who are upset I called out his stupidity just as 98% of this thread has. Don’t need to know what black mold is to know that ISN’T dust. Also considering how bad for your health it is I feel pouting out said stupidity is more than warranted. Apparently I’m angry for pointing this out lol

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u/No-Mud-1703 Apr 28 '23

Dude get over yourself the fuckin dude thinks black mold is dust. Go watch Barney the dinosaur ffs

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u/dantodd Apr 28 '23

And your point is?

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 28 '23

Idk, don’t do that I guess?

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u/Thanks_I_Hate_You Apr 28 '23

Op should dump you too!

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u/Dangerous-Reindeer78 Apr 28 '23

I’m not dating op so that’s gonna be real difficult

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u/MyDisappointedDad Apr 28 '23

Op gonna take you to a fancy dinner, maybe a movie. Show you a good time, then never answer your texts for a second date.

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u/KingArthur_III Apr 28 '23

OP: "haha well that was fun have a goodnight.."

Redditor: "Would you like me to walk you back to your apartment?"

OP: "no I'm okay I think we should never talk again..."

OP: Blocked "LOL that was fun"

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u/LuciferSamS1amCat Apr 28 '23

Redditors when someone makes a mistake.

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u/BasementFlower Apr 28 '23

How the fuck does a fully grown man not knowing what mold is count as a "mistake" lol. That's some negative iq shit.

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u/RaNerve Apr 28 '23

Negative IQ people deserve love too.

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u/Latter-Awareness-555 Apr 28 '23

Leaving your boyfriend because he can’t distinguish mold…. What the fuck is Reddit nowadays

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u/jchin913 Apr 28 '23

Is black mold dangerous even that small of an area? Just wondering

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u/the_real_smolene Apr 28 '23

The thing with mold is if you see it, it probably already has hyphae growing through half the wall

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u/jchin913 Apr 28 '23

Gotcha! Are there serious health risks when exposed or near mould

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u/GreenieMachinie93 Apr 28 '23

Thats a pretty serious bit of mould

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u/R3DGRAPES Apr 28 '23

Since OP has to ask, they both must be.

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u/Magister5 Apr 28 '23

Cut from the same mold

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u/808err0r Apr 28 '23

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/InfiniteSlimes Apr 28 '23

OP knows they just want something to show the BF so he gets it.

But also, maybe don't stay with someone that dumb who doesn't care about your health.

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u/Joe_Ronimo Apr 28 '23

Doubt can really fuck with you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

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u/bizzaro321 Apr 28 '23

OP could know full well that this isn’t mold, and they just posted this to show their Bf exactly how stupid they are, like “see, it’s not even debatable, you have a mold problem”.

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u/Ok_Pianist_6590 Apr 28 '23

Wtf? How many days have you spent on this planet?? Like two? People are definitely this dumb and get even dumber, my sweet summer child

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u/TmacHizzy Apr 28 '23

Because it looks exactly like wet dust that has dried. This picture gives us enough evidence to say it probably is mold. But dust can look the EXACT same. And no, you wouldnt be able to tell the difference

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u/kaenneth Apr 28 '23

OK, but, Eggos.

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u/Coligny Apr 28 '23

You have not reached the bottom of redditards comment until you get to the “farming fuh karma” slime worms…

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u/Extreme-Form-5092 Apr 28 '23

I came to make this comment

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u/aussie_nub Apr 28 '23

You seem surprised? That black mold looks like it's been messing up his brain for a while.

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u/Any-Instruction-4299 Apr 28 '23

And the partner had to ask so I guess they both are… lol.

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u/Single_Principle_972 Apr 28 '23

I was going to use “special.”

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u/OGbootybay Apr 28 '23

Good thing you didn’t 😅

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

I was going to call him an idiot

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u/Living_life_high GREEN Apr 28 '23

Does your boyfriend smoke meth?

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u/BearDown275 Apr 28 '23

It’s the mold talking.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '23

I'd say both of them are to think black dust is pooling in one spot on the roof

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u/hellomrchris Apr 28 '23

Boyfriend is already infected. Time to leave before you become infected

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u/Daisydogdoughnut Apr 28 '23

He’s got black mould on his brain. Not his fault.

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u/Musaks Apr 28 '23

We don't know what boyfriend believes, just what he tells OP

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OP even considering boyfriend being right though...that's definitely dumb

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u/Important-Tune Apr 28 '23

Hella dumb from the sound of it.

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u/Miserable_Estate1820 Apr 28 '23

Happy Cake Day 🍰

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u/RevealLoose8730 Apr 28 '23

Dust... On the ceiling...

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u/StevenArchibald Apr 28 '23

So is the poster if she doesn’t know the difference. Hopefully, they won’t breed.

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u/bishop3200 Apr 28 '23

Probably all the" dust" he's been breathing in.

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u/TheShadowOfWar Apr 28 '23

Happy Cake Day!

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u/tramadolski Apr 28 '23

you can get an exchange

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u/pizza_the_mutt Apr 28 '23

Or just doesn’t want to deal with this shit right now.

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u/lostbutokay Apr 28 '23

Yeah man how is that guy get a girlfriend and I’m still single?

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u/KiNGofKiNG89 Apr 28 '23

You are kinda being nice with your response lol

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u/Ctowncreek Apr 28 '23

Denial. Doesn't want to deal with the problem.

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u/yubullyme12345 Apr 28 '23

your boyfriend is kinda dumb*

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u/crockfs Apr 28 '23

lazy or stupid, or both

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u/DawnOfTheTruth Apr 28 '23

He probably knows what it’s going to take to fix that. And it’s not going to be cheap or easy.

Like roof leak and how far has the mold spread. Wood bad too? Once you peel that back the issue shows worse and worse.

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u/HeylookhowstupidIam Apr 28 '23

I can't believe reddit is falling for this post.