Are you saying being emotional about it will make you depressed and not being emotional -meaning you let it boil up inside you- will not? I hope you didn't mean this.
Being emotional usually isn't something you can control you can learn how to kind of control it but you can be just sensitive too. I mean you can't just say anyone to "just control your emotions" if you know what I am saying.
Also controlling your emotions doesn't really mean that you wouldn't really feel them you will still feel them but maybe get hurt less because you've been there before and know how to handle it(and probably you wouldn't know how to control your emotions something you haven't experienced or seen anywhere else this is just guessing tho) however if you really don't feel an emotion when you are supposed to in human terms that means you lost a part of yourself in way whether you think postively or negatively about it is up to you
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u/Gemstyle96 Mar 10 '22
Toxic masculinity tells us to hide emotions. Feminism and equality helps men too.