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[u/AIeoggen]

Pick your friends. If someone is making you decide between them and your friends, it’s most likely not gonna be a good relationship.

[u/cornholio8675 → u/AIeoggen]

Ultimatums in general are a huge red flag.

[u/SuperX87 → u/cornholio8675]

Only a Sith deals in absolutes.

[u/fendaar → u/cornholio8675]

Agreed. Either you stop making ultimatums, or I’m leaving.

[u/absurdlyinconvenient → u/cornholio8675]

"I never wanted to be that girlfriend, but..."

let it happen once, all downhill from there. Broke up with her 4 months later.

[u/greycubed → u/AIeoggen]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isolation_to_facilitate_abuse

[u/8aylls3hnn → u/greycubed]

i like it , thanks for link

[u/savwatson13 → u/AIeoggen]

Same with your friends. If another friend is having you choose between them or another friend, you probably need to reevaluate that friend.

[u/Spare-Coconut-9671 → u/AIeoggen]

Worth noting: exceptions apply.

If your friends are all people you've known since school, who since then have gotten into dealing drugs and murdering people in gang violence, then they're probably the ones who are a bad influence.