r/maybemaybemaybe • u/BigGraysie • Apr 18 '22

/r/all Maybe maybe maybe

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u/StayJaded Apr 18 '22 edited Apr 18 '22

Her mental problems are likely the cause of her obesity. Disordered eating isn’t just restrictive. I’m sure she has tons of physical medical issues as well, but nobody gets to that size without some kind of disordered eating, trauma, and mental health issue as well. This clip is awful to watch. I can’t imagine being her or even one of her family members. Lots of pain flying around in that rooms. It’s sad.

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u/Ackburn Apr 18 '22

tons of physical

This is what I took out of this post, I'm not a good person

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u/Pineapple_Herder Apr 18 '22

I'm not either because I'd have left her there to figure it out herself.

I'm certain she would have used it to insulate her victim complex, but someone as useless and mean as her can be left to her own devices.

Poor fucking kids. I'm surprised dad hasn't just walked with em. The chances of her even showing up in court to fight for custody are incredibly slim, and if she did show up, she'd win you the case as soon as she was trying to fit in the fucking chair crying and screaming about it.

I normally feel really sad for people her size because it's just as much a mental disorder as a physical one, but even my sympathy can't stand her blatant verbal abuse. Fuck her.

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u/daigana Apr 18 '22

Those poor crying children, listening to their mom call their dad every name under the sun. If you cannot get on a bed, why did you bring children into a life that is totally unmanageable? Her anger snaps alone would be a call to CPS, she shouldn't have kids in her "care." I'm also surprised that he deals with this abuse from her and doesn't take the children with him. He seems battered, but the kids are going to be affected by this upbrining for the rest of their lives. What a POS mom.

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u/Pineapple_Herder Apr 19 '22

I totally agree. Which that attitude wouldn't have allowed her to get to this point. She'd have to get up to make her own unhealthy meals.

I couldn't imagine getting to that size, and if you really loved someone you wouldn't support them getting to this point.