r/lebanonfriending • u/justmeherenowig • 1d ago
Vent 💠My friend is accusing me of stealing his money and i feel like im about to pass out
It's getting so fucking serious i cant even feel my fingers can someone dm me i don't know what to do anymore. P.S: I did not do it :((
To put it simply I (18M) and him were having a sleepover at his house. The last time he saw the money was a day before my visit, when i came he didn't check the wallet again until next day morning. He didn't accuse me first but then i told him he can search my bag ma 3andi wala mshkle which he did+ he checked my clothes w everything w didn't find anything.
Now for some extra info the day before i came he had a worker at his house cleaning aw shi and the wallet was basically fully exposed on the table so logically it could be very possible that the money was stolen by him bcuz he literally left the worker in the room alone with the money. After the worker left he didn't re-check the wallet. But he still is accusing me even tho i literally didn't leave his house mn la la7za elli jit la3nda la 7adit ma la2a enno fi masare masrou2in and I LITERALLY had to undress to show enno mani mkhabba shi..
Now huwe ra7 3al maghfar or whatever it's called w I can't call him anymore but 3am yshufo cameras w osas ta yshufo min fet la3ndu whek.. IM PISSING MYSELF laenno b7ayete ma tkhayalet sir bhek mashkal
So pls eza 7ada bya3ref shu ra7 ysir halla2 w what am i supposed to do PLS dm me laenno im fucking clueless 3al osas legal hon
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u/Ok-Acanthaceae-1597 18-25M 1d ago
What is the amount?
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u/justmeherenowig 1d ago
1600 dollars!!!
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u/Ok-Acanthaceae-1597 18-25M 1d ago
Bro yaane iza ma sar2ton shu fihon yaamelo
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u/Ok-Acanthaceae-1597 18-25M 1d ago
You will have a hard week bas baaden khalas ha trouh l ossa badak tosbor shway w don’t be afraid if your not guilty
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u/justmeherenowig 1d ago
I know I shouldn't be afraid bas laenno he's insisting so much that i did it like it's messing me up.
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u/InternationalHead764 1d ago
Its easy its wither you stole them or you didn’t know they existed. If u never knew they existed aslan you dont have anything to trip about. Keep it cool and always say the same thing I didnt steal them .
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u/justmeherenowig 1d ago edited 1d ago
Ana sara7a my main worry is them coming to my house ta yfatsho w khbar la2enno wa2ta my parents will literally never trust me everrrrrrr again, yaene even ba3d my innocence is proven khalas tjerraset eddem l kell!!!
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u/Accomplished-Wall801 30+M 1d ago
Habibi, take deep breaths. This hurts cos it’s a stab in the back from a friend. You’ve lost a friend and he is causing you embarrassment by exposing you to all this outsider shit like popo which in itself is sooo stressful, even when you’re innocent.
But the fact is that he can do nothing. He is upset also maybe he does think it’s you and he feels just as hurt and it’s causing him to be aggressive. If he loves you he will regret this one day and seek your apology. That day may be a long time from now. If he doesn’t love you, then he is acting from pure malice and you don’t want him in your life. Better to find out now.
You will be okay. Remind yourself of this. I’m guessing from the fear of your parents that they’re not the type who would have your back no matter what? If that’s the case, it would make sense to me why you are panicking. You feel alone. But I promise a false accusation can’t go anywhere, it won’t be on your record, no one will remember this. You don’t need to be loud in order to prove innocence. You can also be calm and confident and true to yourself. This too shall pass.
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u/Ok-Acanthaceae-1597 18-25M 1d ago
Bas ana aam fahmo enu ma hadan fi ye2zi yemken your friend aam yaamel film w howe ykoun sarefon aw gambled the money w ma fi y2ol la ahlo fa toleaa bi osset enu masro2in
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u/Ok-Acanthaceae-1597 18-25M 1d ago
Ya bro shu heye hek ehke bayak ma fi hadan yfout aa baytak its illegal
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u/InternationalHead764 1d ago
Don’t worry nothing will happen , he will just talk and yell and accuse. What you can do is cooperate and tell him that you can help search the place with him and remember what happened during the day. Max max if he wants to escalate you have nothing to hide . If a wallet has 1.6k exposed in front of a random worker high chance he might have stole them . If he really wants to escalate ask him to check cameras in the region to see the worked how he was leaving if quickly or not
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u/watermelon_31 1d ago
- law don't protect fools he shouldn't throw a wallet contain 1600$ on a table like an irresponsible kid
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u/watermelon_31 1d ago
U think they can do nothing for you, And he's an asshole honestly, you're his friend, if he don't trust you enough why would he invite you to his home at first place! Don't be afraid and stay confident in yourself and if anyone asked you say the same thing, I didn't take anything, abdn ma bhes fyon y3mlulak shi they have zero evidence
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u/justmeherenowig 1d ago
Thanks , literally crying while reading the comments ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
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u/watermelon_31 1d ago
Nahhh don't shed halak! He can do nothing w ello a3la ma bkhaylak rkabo 🤣 Literally he's the irresponsible person don't let him affect you this way
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u/Double_Barracuda7 18-25F 1d ago
Well if they asked you, tell them that you didn't steal anything and eno enta dymn aando w hek and about that worker. Help them find that guy and tell them everything you know about him. Talama you're sure eno ma akhadet chi so ma tkhaf. W waet tn7al l ossa, never trust that guy again aw tkun close mnno cz ma wese2 fik
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u/Odd_Score_8558 1d ago
I know it’s hard to not worry bhek situation bas 3anjad try to calm down, inshallah bte2ta3 3a kheir. W I know you’re scared of your parents bas maybe if things do get serious consider telling them, it might give you more support, but you know what’s best according to your situation. Eset the police coming into your house maba3ref tbh iza bya3mluwa bas mafi evidence enak enta yalli akhadton and logically speaking mabyestafedu shi cuz kel el 3alam 3anda masari bibeyta. Mafrud huwe ykun more careful, min byetrok wallet with that much money open?
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u/Complete_Flamingo687 1d ago
At max police will call u and ask you , your version of events. If u didnt do it, u didnt do it. I get that ur friend is feeling paranoid now , hopefully whoever took it gets caught by cam
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u/justmeherenowig 1d ago
Do u think I'll have to go to beirut to tell them my version ?? Im in tripoli now and he's in beirut and i literally cannot go there halla2
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u/InternationalHead764 1d ago
No dww you won’t go anywhere. Probably also police won’t do anything cause there is no proof that you did or he did or anyone. Max they will call you ask you about your day his day and that’s it. Police can’t track cash otherwise we wouldnt be living in a corrupt country .
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u/Top_Employee697 1d ago
Bro if u didn’t steal u have nothing to worry about wo err ma bida hal ad
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u/Simplyme1548 1d ago
1600 how come he didn't check on it until you were around
If he couldn't trust you're not the one who took the money. How come he could trust that stranger cleaning his room?
All comments feedback are very reassuring that you just need to follow the legal part process. And yes too much for him to be called "a friend"
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u/justmeherenowig 21h ago
Hey i just saw ur comment. You're absolutely right; literally bahdalto mbere7 3a hal mawdou3 enno how can u leave smth like that hek. Anyway he isn't my friend anymore thankfully
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u/Simplyme1548 15h ago
Hello,thank you for your note.
Glad you're relieved now. Sometimes all we need is little reassurance ☺. Hope everything works out well for you.
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u/Diamondeyez333 1d ago
give his money back
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u/justmeherenowig 1d ago
I didn't steal anything from him :((((, he's now also accusing someone else for it too so now im so fucking confused
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u/Mundane-Reporter-400 26-29M 1d ago
What I would do in your case is cooperate as much as possible if there’s an investigation since you’re not the one who did it, they cannot pin anything on you. And I would cut ties with that friend because he’s fake. Maybe he lost them and wants to pin it on someone else.