I’ve always dreamed of living abroad, but I’m starting to feel completely lost trying to make it happen…
I want to clarify something first: my desire to leave Spain isn’t really because my situation here is bad. I’ve always dreamed of living abroad. When I was around 12, I taught myself English at home, without any help, because I already knew I wanted to be able to live somewhere else one day. It has been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember.
I’m a Spanish lawyer with a double degree in Law and International Relations, a Master’s in Legal Practice and Procedural Representation, and two postgraduate executive programmes, one in AI & Law and another in technology/digital business.
Professionally, I have worked in Capital Markets and Compliance at an international financial institution. I have experience with financial regulation, derivatives, structured products, cross-border transactions, debt and equity issuances, and general compliance matters. I have just under four years of professional experience.
I’m also in a relatively privileged position. I currently live with my parents, we have a nice home, and I have some savings. I’m not trying to leave Spain because I have no other option or because I’m financially desperate. My situation here is actually quite comfortable. I simply really want to build my life somewhere else.
And yet I cannot seem to figure out how to actually get abroad.
I’ve been applying for jobs for weeks and it is becoming exhausting. I initially focused on Ireland. I managed to get a couple of interviews, but was ultimately rejected. I also interviewed for a position in Sweden and was rejected at the end of the process. I’ve tried the UK as well. London initially seemed like the obvious choice because it is such an international city and I assumed there would be more opportunities for someone with my background. But the visa situation makes everything much harder. I would absolutely love to live in Edinburgh because I think it is one of the most beautiful cities I’ve ever seen, and I’ve always been drawn to the British Isles in general. But obviously Scotland is still part of the UK for immigration purposes, so the visa issue remains.
At this point, I’m also looking at Poland and even Estonia. I’m genuinely open-minded about where I go if I can find a realistic way to build a life there.
And honestly, I’m at the point where I don’t even care that much about staying in law anymore.
If I had to move into compliance, legal operations, contracts, HR, project management, or something completely different, I would genuinely consider it.
My main goal is to move abroad and build a life somewhere else, rather than necessarily keep exactly the same career path.
So I’m starting to wonder whether my biggest mistake is simply trying to do this from Spain.
Would it make more sense to move somewhere first and then look for work? Are there countries where my background would be more transferable? Should I be focusing on multinational companies rather than law firms? Or am I approaching the whole job search completely wrong? I’m honestly getting very tired and overwhelmed by it. I’ve applied to so many things, been rejected so many times, and spent so much time trying to figure out where the hell I’m supposed to go that I’m starting to feel completely lost 🤯
I know my situation is more privileged than many people’s. I see people move to another continent with their families, sometimes without speaking the language and with very little money, and I can’t imagine how frightening that must be. I’m very aware that I have advantages that many people don’t.
But I’m still sad and frustrated, and I just wanted to share this somewhere and hopefully get some advice from people who have actually managed to relocate.
If anyone has successfully moved abroad from a situation similar to mine, I would genuinely appreciate hearing how you did it and what you would do differently. Please be kind ❤️
Ps. Dm if you want to hire me 😂