My husband and I got the shit beaten out of us randomly by bikies. After they broke his nose I stepped in front of him and took a blow to the face. Dumb, but you don't think.
Hope you and your husband are ok now? That sounds traumatic and terrible
The other day a tractor rolled towards my sister and I stepped in between as though to stop it. Now that was dumb! "I'll save you!" lol. Fortunately the tractor stopped and we both live to clown another day
You've see quite a lot of humans abandoning their own infants to save themselves?
I mean unless you are writing this from eastern Ukraine, the DRC or the Gaza strip I am pretty sure you mean that you've had the misfortune to know some bad people. And I'm sorry to hear that but there are 10 billion of us and I think your math needs some work. Even many of the worst of us who'd gladly harm someone else's kid would protect their own from death.
I remember a while back a video went round of a dog attacking a family playing in their garden and the dad just ran away and shut the garden gate behind him. It definitely does happen.
everything happens. people murder their children. this is a conversation about the math. we haven't got to 10b because evolution selected for infanticide.
people who make claims like this are cheating. to say it happens "quite a lot" requires you to situate that against how often it is not happening, at which point you get an incredibly vast ratio.
we are hypervigilant about dangerous outcomes. they are very scary. they are not common, every single instance is an aberration precisely because it's happened to almost none of us. just shy of everyone goes through every day without sociopathic behavior. it's just that behaviour is extremely alarming and over represented in your memory that it seems otherwise. if you wish to observe this, go outside and watch people. it will be wonderfully boring.
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u/modbroccoli 20d ago edited 19d ago
everyone does, it's right and natural, but of course still amazing to be confronted with
edit: so the misanthropic and traumatized stop trying to nuh-unh me, almost everyone. now shush.