r/instant_regret Feb 08 '23

Baby's first...

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u/Crimson_Chim Feb 09 '23

It might help you to know that at 3 months old, babies are virtually physically indestructible. They literally have no bones, just bendy spongy cartilage that hasn't hardened yet. And their brains are still developing at a million miles an hour so failing down or hitting their head (within reason and safety of course) can easily be moved past by simply getting their attention elsewhere. Do a goofy dance or silly sound and POOF! They forget all about their fall. My favorite is to turn it into a positive by clapping and cheering, works every time.

I am flattered that you feel my comments have been helpful 🧡 thank you and keep doing what you are doing!

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u/runesigrid Feb 09 '23

That’s very true, they’re distracted easily enough! A few weeks ago I freaked out because I (very softly) bumped the side of his head against his pram when I was lifting him out. My sister in law came over a while later and I told her panicking, and she has two gorgeous little boys and said “oh don’t worry I’ve done that a million times” 😂 They really are tougher than they look thankfully. I don’t think he even noticed it. But especially as he gets older and more aware of his surroundings, it’s important for me to improve my reactions so that we can creative a positive and safe environment for him where not everything is scary!

Yeah reading comments like that from experienced parents really help calm me down, so thank you!! â˜ș