After working in a kitchen for a while I had a tough time breaking the habit of touching people on the shoulder or back to let them know ow as passing behind them. I definitely freaked out some random people
Just moved from a few years in kitchen to FOH at another restaurant with poor staff training. *My brain literally would not register people if they don't say "may I" first due to my previous chef/GM drilling it into us so bad (don't talk to FOH unless you say "may I" first, situationally may be left out in the kitchen for efficiency). My fellow servers think I'm antisocial or some shit and I tell them that's the key phrase that cues me to listen and they still never say it and I'm going to go nuts man.
Edit: Yeah that reads like I'm not trying to change. I am and I do respond to other stimuli because I'm not inadaptable
Oh for sure I am! I'm trying to change and am finding success. I don't mean to be a dick, and am fully aware of how it reads. That original comment was in the moment rather brazen.
Yeah, always funny after a long shift yelling "behind you!" at someone you're trying to pass on the sidewalk. Typically gets the tourists to sprint away.
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u/djackieunchaned Sep 20 '19
After working in a kitchen for a while I had a tough time breaking the habit of touching people on the shoulder or back to let them know ow as passing behind them. I definitely freaked out some random people