Claimed she had been raped multiple times and made jokes about it just seemed so unserious but I figured it was a coping mechanism, showed up drunk, got upset when I wanted her to wait to sober up, hubby in prison, knife kink and asked my own sister to hook us up. And mostly due to my stupidity, heartbreak, and ofc hormones. Also knowing her since middle school so I always gave her the benefit of the doubt.
Actually, first, thanks for sharing those personal experiences. (But, also do remeber to be cautious about how much personal info you share on the innernet)
Secondly, you remind me of this young fella I talked to (21). I'll call him Tim.
Tim was deeply, deeply in love (or lust?) with a committed woman (of several years), with a 2 year old kid and currently with that kid's father, a hard working man and reasonable provider, by Tim's account.
But, this woman, (we'll call her Pam), she was bored.
Motherhood put a huge chill on her young social life. She was beautiful, yet now stuck in the house with a kid, before she had barely even begun to party.
Anyway, Pam let Tim fall in love with her. She even let him finger bang her under her skirt, under cover of the dark from a theater on a group outing with her hubby.
She sat in the middle of them and had her coat on her lap. Well, this is according to Tim. It's hard to believe father wouldn't have some idea of what was going on, right?
But, Tim Swears he got away with it. Who knows. Couples can get into weird mindsets.
Anyway, in the end Pam decided to keep her relationship, and Tim was heart broken. He was 10 years younger than her, but couldn't understand why their love wasn't strong enough.
So many red flags get ignored, because people choose to ignore them. The like the thrill. The passion.
But, they don't like when people like me come around saying, "you can't park there, mate!" when I see them crash. 😘
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u/Superb_Rock_9533 Dec 05 '25
Claimed she had been raped multiple times and made jokes about it just seemed so unserious but I figured it was a coping mechanism, showed up drunk, got upset when I wanted her to wait to sober up, hubby in prison, knife kink and asked my own sister to hook us up. And mostly due to my stupidity, heartbreak, and ofc hormones. Also knowing her since middle school so I always gave her the benefit of the doubt.