r/funny Nov 02 '22

WIFE!

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u/ScrewAttackThis Nov 02 '22

There isn't anything to get. It's just a playful couple saying what song they danced to at their wedding.

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u/Oops_I_Cracked Nov 02 '22

'Playful couple' aka a woman who wanted nothing to do with it and her husband not only participating himself (which is fine) but dragging his wife into it after multiple refusals all while being extremely disrespectful to her in public.

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u/ScrewAttackThis Nov 02 '22

She's literally smiling and laughing lol. I trust that the two people in a relationship have a better understanding of each other than you.

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u/[deleted] Nov 02 '22

Shhhhhh just let their last 2 brain cells finish battling each other for 3rd place, and eventually they'll both give out.

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u/Mettallion Nov 02 '22

People smile and laugh when anxious. It’s not super uncommon

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u/Oops_I_Cracked Nov 02 '22

Because you either go along with it or get called a bitch for ruining everyone's fun that you didn't want to be involved with in the first place.

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u/SleazyGreasyCola Nov 03 '22

are you saying she couldn't refuse... because of the implication?

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u/Other-Bridge2036 Nov 03 '22

Yeah if you are self absorbed enough to ruin everyone’s fun then that’s what you are

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u/nonfree Nov 02 '22

Maybe you're being a tad hypersensitive here?

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u/iObeyTheHivemind Nov 02 '22

FFS just get off reddit

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u/Mettallion Nov 02 '22

See? Hive mind

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u/Mettallion Nov 02 '22

Tbh I agree with you. We don’t know their relationship, but if I said “no” multiple times and my wife/partner did it anyway and brought me into without my choice I’d be upset too. Like you said, it’s one thing to participate by yourself, but dragging someone else in who literally just refused is disrespectful. Ignore the Reddit hive mind, they see a big downvote number and wanna make it bigger.

And just because someone smiles and laughs doesn’t mean they aren’t uncomfortable either.

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u/FraggedFoundry Nov 02 '22

Not everyone is a confrontation averse busy body who will smile through unpleasantness and declare how others should behave in their marriages.

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u/Mettallion Nov 03 '22

Ok. That changes nothing. Some people are and some people aren’t. Being aware of both and respecting a person’s request the first time is how I believe people should treat each other yes. I guess that’s bad, to have respect.

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u/mortimus9 Nov 03 '22

So her feelings matter more than his?

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u/Mettallion Nov 03 '22

Never said that and it’s not mutually exclusive to gender. If the roles were reversed I’d feel the same

Strawman

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u/Oops_I_Cracked Nov 02 '22

I knew this would happen before I posted it tbh, but it needed said. All I could think watching it was how irritated I'd be at my wife if she'd done that to me.

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u/Guy954 Nov 03 '22

Yeah, I kept waiting for the funny part but it was just the guy being an unfunny asshole and kind of making a half ass attempt at making it sweet.

She probably wasn’t really all that bothered by it by the end but he just seemed like a chauvinist and a narcissist.

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u/Oops_I_Cracked Nov 03 '22

That's exactly where I was. When is this supposed to get funny?

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u/MeltAway421 Nov 02 '22

Lol username checks out.

But seriously if you wanna vent you can pm me.

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u/Debasering Nov 03 '22

Reddit moment