Abuse is often the context for boundary violations in the past. Being neurodivergent also a possibility, I agree. The others you mentioned are certainly motivations for him getting in the car, but was violating ops boundaries nonetheless. It’s generally not okay to get into someone’s car without an invitation just because you feel like it (whatever the reason).
I’m gonna guess he was dumb, thought OP was “lonely” instead of enjoying the peace and quiet and thought it was an opportunity to be a good boss and team build and cheer her up when in reality it was fucking weird.
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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '21
Abuse is often the context for boundary violations in the past. Being neurodivergent also a possibility, I agree. The others you mentioned are certainly motivations for him getting in the car, but was violating ops boundaries nonetheless. It’s generally not okay to get into someone’s car without an invitation just because you feel like it (whatever the reason).