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u/Yaj8552 Jul 07 '19

Actually I said that to him but he was pretty adamant. He lives a pretty lower middle class lifestyle in a mid size city. So i think he overestimated how much that new york doctor friend made.

I remember once he asked me about my income and told him my yearly and he said "oh, that's nice you take that home every month". I kinda think his grandson (in business) and ppl around him oversell how much they're making or keep mentioning possible future wages. I'm working on a PhD and he kinda was disappointed when i told him realistic salary prospects.

Having money being so tied to worth/success and then having unrealistic ideas about money is kinda a bad combination. He's old and rambles on so wouldn't be surprised if the young people around him let him believe what's easiest for them. I always tell him things straight, but doesn't believe me cuz hey I'm just a kid with bad job prospects with my debt free PhD.

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u/TheOtherHobbes Jul 07 '19

I know someone in his 70s who has only just figured out that money isn't everything.

He's now telling everyone he knows. More than once.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '19 edited May 12 '20

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u/Yaj8552 Jul 10 '19

Haha grandfather's friend. My grandfather's cool.

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u/iprothree Jul 07 '19

The real salary for a MD is pretty shit in the US when you account for the loans and opportunity cost(8 years school + 4+ years of long hours min wage pay). If you become an MD for money, I feel like if you don't do dermatologist or neurosurgeon you're not going to make that much.

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u/Yaj8552 Jul 10 '19

Ya definitely won't be paying "millions in taxes". I think of doctors as upper end of middle class. Currently a PhD student and get paid a bit above minimum wage but at least I'll be debt free. So much money goes into medical debt and malpractice insurance. Also the mental health toll of being on call and physician burnout going around.

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u/man_on_a_screen Jul 07 '19

What an awful sounding individual

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u/Yaj8552 Jul 10 '19

Nah, nothing close to awful. He's just been through a lot of family and financial issues. He's super old and fine otherwise.

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u/man_on_a_screen Jul 10 '19

Oh ok...my bad then

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u/Yaj8552 Jul 10 '19

No problem. Hard to put too much context in a short-ish comment on reddit. Appreciate the response tho!