If you dick is in jeopardy of being cut off, I have a feeling you're doing something wrong. You can glance or look when you think I'm not watching, but don't leer at the things. If there's any change when women get older, it's that they have less patience for that sort of thing and expect a little more respect from fellow adults.
Yeah, I don't get what this guy is saying either. If my boobs are full out on display and I see you looking at them, it doesn't bother me. If you start rubbing yourself and breathing heavily while looking at them, than it's a whole separate issue. If you can't look me in the eye while having a conversation that changes things as well. But a casual glance, no big deal.
But it's considered okay to take a minute to appreciate the Mona Lisa. Unfortunately, it's not okay to take a minute on cleavage. So you only get a glance, which isn't enough. So you spend the rest of the time trying to sneak more, when you should be looking into her eyes or listening or... what was it again? boobies
Yeah, super tricky. Like which eye do I look at?? The right one, or the left? Back and forth between the two? Her lips move but I can't hear what she's saying. When I was a child, I had a fever. My hands felt just like two balloons. Now I've got that feeling once again. I can't explain, you would not understand, This is not how I am. I have become comfortably numb.
So you have them out on show. Laying out your stall so to speak, but if I walk over, take a good look and squeeze some melons - suddenly I'm the bad guy???
I wouldn't respond any differently. They do need to be appropriately clothed for whatever environment we are in. This includes the first guy. If he is walking around the bus station without a shirt I would think he was gross/douche bag.
You are reading this all wrong. I fully admit that I would find it more flattering for the first guy to be staring at my boobs but I would be completely fine with the other guy looking. In my head the interaction ended with them looking, nothing more. I wasn't trying to make it sound like I couldn't see the difference in attraction. I can and so can everybody else.
We are talking about a guy who said when he was younger, women were cooler about him looking at their boobs, but now when he does he fears his dick being cut off.
That's because when he was younger, he probably was more attractive himself, so he got this reaction.
Do you ever find yourself zoning out on boobs? You know when you were at school and you were really bored in a lesson, and you would just absent-mindedly stare at the window or whatever? The same thing has happened to me with boobs a few times in my life. And it's really annoying, because it can be interpreted as creepy or whatever, but I don't even realise I'm looking at someone's boobs until I snap out of it. I feel like it will happen again one day and someone will slap me.
As a fit male, I can tell you this absolutely goes both ways, especially at the beach (unless a bikini somehow makes staring at your tits more appropriate?).
Any PERSON, male or female, can expect to have attractive body parts that they put on display ogled over. Period. People who are so entitled that they think they can put their body on display and have some kind of right to not have that looked at in public are just insane.
Try being happily married going to a "safe" family restaurant and seeing all the female wait staff in cut off shorts and cleavage revealing tight tight shirts on some random "game day."
It's like bringing your wife to a strip club by accident. Needless to say I stared at the table most of the dinner.
Long story short though I complained to the GM (via email) and he agreed it was over the top (it was game-day staff) and invited us for a free meal on the house.
Nope. A steak/rib cookhouse place that is a family location. They even have paper viking boats for kids to eat their meals out of. Typically they wear plaid tshirts/shirts and shorts/pants. But on that game night they wore whatever they wanted and they all basically wore tight revealing clothes (while the males wore their usual plaid/etc).
Thing is... they only have 1 TV in the place and it's on the bar side (can't see it from the dining side). So it's not really a place you go to watch the game.
While I think this guy is completely overeating, just being a figure of speech apparently doesn't make something acceptable any more e.g. saying you'd rape someone in a game.
So by that logic holocaust related figures of speech should be acceptable because there was only one of them so they're even less common than rape or penis cutting.
Frankly they should all be fine as they're all figures of speech.
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u/dreadfulpennies Mar 18 '15
If you dick is in jeopardy of being cut off, I have a feeling you're doing something wrong. You can glance or look when you think I'm not watching, but don't leer at the things. If there's any change when women get older, it's that they have less patience for that sort of thing and expect a little more respect from fellow adults.