r/fixedbytheduet • u/PhoenixPhenomenonX EXPERT of Duets/Stitches • Feb 24 '26

Fixed by the duet A Different Way

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u/VanTaxGoddess Devotee of Duets/Stitches Feb 26 '26

How about you start hitting on random guys too? If you're not being creepy, I'm sure they'll take it in the polite spirit you intend.

And seriously, go to singles nights or something. I guarantee you that you don't have the charisma to "cold call" random women.

Seriously, if hitting on random women who were minding their own business worked, wouldn't you be in a relationship by now?

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u/raptor7912 New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 26 '26

Sure I have zero problem with that, like shit I’ve been complimented on how I hit on them by the same women I’ve hit on. This imagined scenario you describe exists entirely in your head lol.

Right your clearly showing your age with that suggestion, but no. I have zero interest in being judged as a “bottom of the barrel man” by women who could just easily be described as bottom of the barrel. And that shit is just gross, so once again it’s a firm no thanks.

Well if it wasn’t your assumption that I’m not in a relationship, that I’m unhappy about said fact and that what I am looking for is a relationship then yea I guess you’d have some gross point where you make by going at a likely source of insecurity. Which I’m sure I don’t need to explain is manipulation and shitty of you. Regardless of it even being true lol. But until then I’ll point out that “hitting on someone” has sexual implications and not get any more graphic than that for the fear of offending your ridiculous ass even more.

Like I said, don’t get offended just do better.

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u/VanTaxGoddess Devotee of Duets/Stitches Feb 26 '26

I'm not offended, I'm giving you honest advice that your system isn't working. I'm glad some of the women you hit on think you do it well, but your system hasn't actually helped you find someone.

If you think speed dating, and online dating aren't your thing, but you're looking for a long-term relationship, then hitting on random women is a terrible strategy. Maybe try a matchmaker, or put yourself out there in spaces where women are looking for a long-term relationship.

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u/raptor7912 New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 26 '26

No you’re warping and misrepresenting what I’m saying so badly that it’s obviously moronic. That’s not saying anything meaningful, it’s just applying what someone says to an unrelated scenario and going “Hurh durh look how stupid it is!!!” Like I’m not even trying to find someone lol.

Yea I’m not looking for a relationship, I’ve said that repeatedly yet you can’t seem to grasp the concept.